i have a small world

Chapter 1461 Unexpected Choice

Leng Xin's action of nodding in agreement is much larger than Xu Chang's. It seems that Leng Xin is flattering Xu Chang. In fact, if Xu Chang and the monkey have mind reading skills, they will clearly understand that Leng Xin will do this. , really flattering Xu Chang.

When Leng Xin pointed at Xu Chang with the Desert Eagle and threatened Xu Chang, his heart was indeed full of excitement, and he began to satirize Xu Chang with words. Why did Leng Xin do this? His cynicism.

Unfortunately, Leng Xin fell into an embarrassing situation very quickly, because when Xu Chang faced the threat of the Desert Eagle in Leng Xin's hand, he was only frightened by him at the beginning, but soon Yes, Leng Xin realized that things were beyond his imagination.

Not only was Xu Chang not frightened by the 'Desert Eagle' in his hand, but also, Xu Chang began to concentrate all his energy on Leng Xin. Seeing that Xu Chang had concentrated all his energy on himself, Leng Xin was very angry at this moment. I know, I can't handle things by myself.

Although Leng Xin has lost his martial arts now, Leng Xin was an acquired first-tier warrior before, so he knows very well that once a warrior or quasi-martial artist concentrates all his attention on a certain aspect or a certain person When the time comes, it means (wan-shu-ba).nsb. that the warrior or quasi-warrior is ready to make his last and most powerful blow.It was precisely because of understanding this that cold sweat began to break out on Leng Xin's back. He is just an ordinary person now, how could he stop Xu Chang's final moments before he died.It is also the strongest blow.

What Xu Chang had to do now was exactly what Leng Xin thought, and all his energy began to focus on that final blow.The aura of Xu Chang's most powerful blow that was about to be delivered was also locked on Leng Xin's body.

It wasn't until this time that Leng Xin realized that he was only five meters away from Xuchang. The distance of five meters just now was still a pride in Leng Xin's heart, because the closer he was to Xuchang.The Desert Eagle in Leng Xin's hands is more powerful, but unfortunately, the situation has changed now.This five-meter distance is like the gate of hell, grinning at Leng Xin!

Why did Leng Xin feel so scared and desperate when he saw that he was only five meters away from Xuchang.Even quickly compromised.The reason for this is actually very simple. It is because the closer Xu Chang is to Leng Xin, the greater the threat the Desert Eagle poses to Xu Chang. However, Leng Xin forgot one thing, that is, the closer he is to Xu Chang, The more dangerous he is.The average running speed of an ordinary person is seven meters per second, that is to say.In one second, a person can run seven meters.In other words, if a person wants to cross a distance of five meters, it will not take a second at all.

However, if you really think based on the above, then you are wrong, because the data recorded above are only the data of ordinary people running at a constant speed, and the average person wants to run a distance of five meters. Running starts from a standstill, so if you use the constant speed of a person to estimate the time for a person to run from a standstill to a distance of five meters, it is absolutely wrong.

A person's average running speed of seven meters per second is measured when a person is running at a high speed. At that time, you have already started it. At this time, you can run a distance of five meters in less than a second. However, if you want to run a distance of five meters from a standstill, the time must definitely exceed one second.

Just like a car with a speed of 100 kilometers per hour, it takes about four to five seconds to travel a distance of 100 meters from a standstill to the highest speed. If the speed of 3 kilometers per hour runs over [-] meters, the time required is only about [-] seconds (the time required for a car to accelerate to [-] kilometers per hour is different for cars with different speeds), and the time difference here is quite different. for a second or so.

Therefore, it takes more than one second for a person to run from a standstill to a distance of five meters, and some people with a slow start speed even take two or three seconds to run the five meters. distance, and with all this time, enough time for the man with the gun to shoot-shoot-kill you.

For ordinary people, especially in critical situations, such a distance of five meters is indeed a long distance. Faced with such a distance, ordinary people can only obediently accept their fate in the end.

However, this situation is only for ordinary people, and it is not applicable to warriors.

There is a powerful zhenqi in the body of the warrior, and the zhenqi can give the warrior strong support. With the help of the zhenqi, the warrior can not only start at a faster speed, but even directly let the warrior enter the highest speed, so, It doesn't take two seconds or one second for a martial artist to cross the distance of five meters. Maybe it only takes one-tenth of a second for the martial artist to cross the distance of five meters.

What can Leng Xin do in such a short time?Maybe he was just enough to pull the trigger, and at this moment, if Leng Xin wanted to avoid Xu Chang's final blow, it would be impossible.

Therefore, after Xu Chang made the decision to fight to the death, Leng Xin immediately sat on the wax, and Leng Xin began to regret his impulsiveness just now, which led to the current situation of being stuck.

To be honest, when the monkey just came out to be a peacemaker, Leng Xin was really happy in his heart, he was secretly relieved, even at that time, for a moment, Leng Xin was so moved that he wanted to I cried, if the timing was not right, Leng Xin might really praise the monkey for doing well.

Leng Xin is just a black-astringent-knowledgeable old-dae, although in the eyes of many people the black-astringent-knowledgeable old-dae is a symbol of toughness or strength, but they are actually They are most afraid of death, otherwise, how could they be surrounded by younger brothers when they go in and out.

It is precisely because Leng Xin has long been regretting his behavior psychologically, so.When facing Xu Chang, Leng Xin put on a low profile like never before, and Leng Xin still cherishes his own life.He doesn't want to die with Xu Chang!

Seeing Xu Chang slowly turn off the insurance of the Desert Eagle, Xu Chang finally put down his hands that were always vigilant against Leng Xin, and secretly heaved a deep sigh of relief: "Huh...!".

The situation just now was indeed very tense, Xu Chang's energy was consumed a lot, if the monkey hadn't stood up in time to be a peacemaker, now Xu Chang has launched his final blow, because Xu Chang's energy was exhausted soon.He had to crush the 'Desert Eagle' in Leng Xin's hand, or kill Leng Xin before his energy was exhausted.

Yes, Xu Chang's first choice is to smash the 'Desert Eagle' in Leng Xin's hand.Xu Chang's choice absolutely exceeded the expectations of Leng Xin, Hou Zi, and many others.

From Leng Xin and Hou Zi's point of view, when facing the threat of the Desert Eagle in Leng Xin's hand.Xu Chang's first choice must be to kill Leng Xin.Then take the 'Desert Eagle' from Leng Xin's hands, I believe many people will have the same idea.

But in the end, Xu Chang chose to smash the 'Desert Eagle' in Leng Xin's hand first for the last blow. This is different from Leng Xin's idea that Xu Chang would choose to perish with him or kill him. So Xu Chang would choose this way? why?

The reason why Xu Chang made such a choice is actually very simple, that is, he has to protect his younger brother Xu Jie.

Xu Chang's last blow could indeed kill Leng Xin, but at that time, the danger of Xu Chang's younger brother Xu Jie still existed.Don't think this is nonsense, Xu Jie's danger really exists.

because.Xu Chang's last blow could indeed have killed Leng Xin. Leng Xin was dead at that time, but the monkeys were still there.

After Leng Xin died, the Desert Eagle would still be good. Therefore, the Desert Eagle might still fall into the hands of monkeys, because after Xu Chang killed Leng Xin, he would definitely be killed by Leng Xin before he died. The one who was injured in the final counterattack, at that time, how could Xuchang have the time and effort to snatch the 'Desert Eagle'.

And once the 'Desert Eagle' fell into the monkey's hands, the result... the seriously injured Xu Chang and his younger brother Xu Jie, how can they be the monkey's opponents, the monkey can be easily killed by the desert eagle Xu Chang and Xu Jie.

Of course, the monkey may choose to let Xu Chang go because of Xu Chang's powerful eyesight. However, it is also possible that the monkey killed Xu Chang without even thinking about it after seeing Xu Chang kill Leng Xin. He would want to end up like Leng Xin, so he acted first.

Xu Chang didn't want to put his own death on that illusory luck. Therefore, for the safety of his younger brother Xu Jie, Xu Chang chose the Desert Eagle as the first target of his last attack.

As long as Xu Chang's last blow destroys the Desert Eagle, then Xu Chang is dead, and he can feel at ease. Without the threat of the 'Desert Eagle', Leng Xin and Hou Zi will not be able to hurt Xu Jie anymore, even now Xiaojie is still injured.

Besides, Xu Chang chose to target the Desert Eagle with his final blow. Perhaps Leng Xin could escape the current disaster, but Leng Xin would still die in the end, because Xiaojie would definitely avenge himself.

People like Leng Xin and Houzi have already lost their martial arts, and the only desert eagle in their hands that can threaten Xu Jie was broken by themselves. Therefore, after meeting Xiaojie, people like Leng Xin and Houzi are definitely A dead end.

Of course, if Xu Chang chooses to attack Leng Xin for the last blow, Leng Xin will die as a result, but Xu Jie may also die; if Xu Chang chooses to attack the Desert Eagle on Leng Xin's hand for the last blow, then Leng Xin is now Will not die, but in the end Leng Xin and the monkey will die, but Xu Jie can survive.

Considering these situations, then faced with such two choices, I believe that as long as a smart person knows how to choose.

In such a dangerous moment, it is really rare for Xu Chang to be able to maintain such a clear mind. It can also be seen from this that the more dangerous you are, the clearer your mind is. Only in this way can you Finally escaped.

I have never heard that a person who is confused or not calm will become a strong person and a successful person, so remember, in any environment and under any circumstances, you must keep a clear mind, only In this way, your life will be successful, and you will be able to become a strong person in your life.

When someone loses their composure, stay calm.A person who can maintain correct judgment when others are doing stupid and ridiculous things.There is always a strong stability and a balanced and self-controlled person, such a person is a successful person.

A person whose mind is easily confused; a person who becomes flustered when encountering extraordinary events or under great pressure is a weak person who is not good enough to be entrusted with important responsibilities. Such a person must be a failure in life.

When others are helpless.But you know what to do; when others are chaotic, you still keep calm; great responsibility, great pressure on you.People who don't panic, such talents are popular and valued everywhere, and such people will eventually become successful.

For example.In the agency.There is often an employee who may not be as capable as other employees in various aspects, but will suddenly rise to an important position. Why he has such a good job is actually because of the appreciation of the leader.

When the leader looks at an employee, he not only pays attention to the employee's "talent", but also pays more attention to his "brain". He is looking for this kind of person who is clear-headed, realistic, and can not only dream, but also can actually do things.Because as a leader, he knows that his business is safe and the pillar of the organization.To his members who have sound judgment and sound reason.

Therefore, even if this employee is very inconspicuous in the unit and his position is very low, but as long as he has real ability, one day he will 'shine'!

The characteristic of a clear-headed and balanced mind is that he does not change because of changes in circumstances. Money loss, career failure, sorrow, and hardship are not enough to destroy his spiritual balance; Small achievements, small successes, but arrogant and complacent, such a person is not successful, who else can be successful.

We should also remember this point in our lives, we are in any environment, there is one thing each of us should do, that is, we should be down-to-earth, so that even if we accidentally fall, we can Immediately stand up, still maintaining balance;

We should be calm and considerate when others are in a panic. As long as we do this, we will be able to gain great strength and we will be able to occupy an important position in society.

Because only a clear-headed person and a person who can steer a ship smoothly in the stormy sea are the people in society who are willing to entrust important responsibilities and entrust great things to them; Falling, people who are about to fall to the ground in case of disaster, will not be valued by others, and they will choose.

A person who has not experienced wind and rain is like a young timid girl who can only drive a boat when the weather is calm. Once she encounters a strong wind and a big wave, she will only end up in a crushed end.

Iceberg never loses its tranquility and balance under any circumstances. This is really an excellent example for us!

No matter how hard the wind and waves beat, no matter how violent the huge waves hit, no matter how the sea water invades it, it will never shake, never bump, and never show a trace of being shaken, because it is huge. The volume of is below the water surface.

Its huge size is hidden in the middle of the ocean smoothly, beyond the reach of the stormy waves. This huge hidden force under the water surface and this great "movement" make the part of the iceberg exposed to the water surface defy the wind and waves.

Spiritual balance indicates and represents "strength".Since spiritual balance is the result of spiritual harmony, a one-sidedly developed mind, no matter how developed it may be in any particular respect, can never be a balanced mind.

Just as a tree can never become a flourishing tree if it sends all its nourishing sap to only one giant branch and leaves other parts withered.

However, in the real world, there are very few people who are sane and clear-headed.

We can always see that many capable people do all kinds of incomprehensible and stupid things. Their incomplete judgment and unclear mind frequently hinder their future.

Like a river flowing through uneven areas, the back waves are often beaten back by the front waves without moving forward.

Most of us are lazy by nature, we always like to avoid unpleasant and difficult jobs, we don't like to do things that are not to our taste and enough to annoy us.

If you can always force yourself to do what you think you should do, and do it to the best of your ability, instead of listening to your fear and inertia, your character and your judgment will be greatly improved. enhance.

therefore.People should keep a clear mind at all times, only in this way, you will not be in danger.When faced with an important decision in life, make the wrong choice.

Keeping a clear mind at all times is the magic weapon for winning in your life!

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"Okay, that's good. Since Brother Xuchang and the boss have taken a step back, this is a good start. I believe that with the concerted efforts of all of us, the chances of us returning to Yushi District safely will increase A lot, brother Xuchang, boss. Now everyone sit down and calmly discuss how to do it next. Brother Xuchang, what do you think, boss?"

Both Xu Chang and Leng Xin chose to take a step back, which made the monkey very happy.therefore.He immediately asked Xu Chang and Leng Xin to sit down and calmly discuss their next plan.

Now Xu Chang and Leng Xin encountered each other very suddenly, and after the confrontation just now, both sides' energy was consumed a lot, so this time is definitely the best opportunity for Xu Chang and Leng Xin to cooperate wholeheartedly.

If Xu Chang and Leng Xin regained their spirits, God knows what kind of thoughts they will have in their hearts at that time. Monkey doesn't want the beautiful situation he has worked so hard to achieve to be completely destroyed.

"Leng Xin and I have nothing to talk about. From now on, I will take my single-plank bridge, and you will take your Yangguan Road. As long as you don't provoke me in the future, I will not provoke you either. I, Xu Chang, will do what I say."

Xu Chang opened his mouth to speak, but his tone was still very firm, which directly limited the scope of cooperation between the double anti-dumping parties.

Leng Xin is the main culprit that caused the brothers Xu Chang and Xu Jie to fall into this desolate situation. Therefore, if Xu Chang wants to change his concept all of a sudden and cooperate with Leng Xin, Xu Chang can't do it at all.

Besides, Leng Xin is a black-squeamish old man with a dark heart, and he also has a 'Desert Eagle' in his hand that can threaten Xu Chang and Xu Jie. Safety, what if when Xu Chang was cooperating with them, Leng Xin had other thoughts in his heart and secretly used the 'Desert Eagle' to deal with Xu Chang and Xu Jie?

The power of the 'Desert Eagle' was enough to instantly kill the two brothers Xu Chang and Xu Jie, so Xu Chang didn't want to take such a risk.

"Hehe, Brother Xu Chang, don't be in a hurry, sit down first." Monkey knew the reason Xu Chang said this, but he had enough confidence to persuade Xu Chang, so Monkey stepped forward to persuade Xu Chang to sit down first.

However, Xu Chang didn't listen to the monkey's persuasion, and frowning, let the monkey want to hold his hand.

Seeing that Xu Chang avoided pulling his hand, the monkey was not very angry. On the contrary, the monkey said with a smile on his face: "Brother Xuchang, even if you don't want to cooperate with us, you still have to sit down and discuss with us. Some things about the two sides. For example, when we meet in other places on the island, what should we do? Or when one of us is in danger, should the other side help? These questions We have to make a decision first, otherwise, it will cause some unnecessary troubles."

Houzi is very smart. He knows that because of the previous hatred between the two sides, even if Xu Chang is no longer directly attacking Leng Xin, Xu Chang has not dispelled his vigilance towards Leng Xin, so he wants to let For Xuchang to truly cooperate with them, the monkey has to work hard.

However, even though Xu Chang was very wary of Leng Xin and the others, Monkey still wanted to persuade Xu Chang to work with them. Although it was very difficult to do so, Monkey had enough confidence to persuade Xu Chang work with them.

Persuading Xu Chang head-on won't work, so try side-to-side persuasion, and now the monkey has chosen a roundabout tactic.

Monkey first talked about some other topics to let Xu Chang accept, and finally chose to sit down with them to discuss, and then monkey slowly turned the issue to the cooperation between the two parties.

Monkey's martial arts is not enough, but his IQ is indeed very strong, he is very confident in this devious tactic he planned.

Detours are usually implemented when the enemy has exposed flanks or large gaps, and can also be implemented after breaking through the enemy's defenses.The success of the detour depends on many factors, mainly: timely and accurate identification of the enemy's situation and terrain in the face and in depth; correct selection of the direction and route of the detour; careful organization of coordination, support and necessary fire support; Act in a timely and decisive manner to deal with various situations.

Whirling, circling; refers to the nature or state of going around in circles in thought or expression; it also refers to a very tortuous road or a natural scene; it is also often used as a metaphor for tactics in combat.

The military interpretation of detour tactics is: in order to avoid confrontation with the enemy.Take the enemy's advance and retreat, and the enemy's retreat and advance, by looking for the gaps exposed.Scatter the enemies and annihilate them one by one.Or it refers to a tactic that avoids the enemy's strong front and attacks the weaker side of the enemy's rear.

A detailed explanation of detour tactics is maneuvering around the enemy's rear. The purpose is to attack the enemy's weak position, or cut off the enemy's retreat, block the enemy's reinforcements, cooperate with frontal forces and encircling forces to encircle and annihilate a certain group of the enemy army. According to the nature and scope of strategic detours , campaign detours and tactical detours.

Turnaround is usually implemented when the enemy has exposed flanks or large gaps, and it can also be implemented after breaking through the enemy's defense. The success of the turnaround depends on many factors, mainly: timely and accurate identification of the enemy's situation in the face and in depth, terrain ;Correctly select the detour direction and route; Carefully organize coordination, security and necessary fire support; Act secretly and unexpectedly, and deal with various situations in a timely and decisive manner.

Detours have become an important tactic in ancient Chinese warfare. In Europe, at the end of the 18th century, detours have been used as a maneuvering style.

After the First World War, detours were widely used in wars, campaigns, and combat operations. The Chinese People's Liberation Army used detours extensively in previous revolutionary wars. Action plays an important role in annihilating the enemy. In future wars, the army's firepower, maneuverability and assault power will all be further improved.

The depth and speed of the ground forces' detours will increase, and they will be more widely supported by aviation, airborne and long-range firepower.

Since detour tactics are very applicable in war, the ancestors also created a tactic based on detour tactics.

Roundabout: Go around in a circle to reach the goal.

In the sophistication of the world, many people are "straight". "One muscle", such a person should learn some detours, and can use the curve to get the most benefits in the human relationship.

Ability to change the course of doing things flexibly.Sometimes results beyond imagination can be achieved.

Detours are not very useful on the battlefield, even in modern society, detours are also very useful.

For example, how to get along or "get close" with difficult people.This time is the best opportunity for you to use detours.

People who travel far.There are high mountains blocking the way and stumbling stones in front of you, so you will naturally find a way to go around, or use your brain to find another way.This approach is applied in the world of human relations, that is to go around in circles to achieve the goal, in other words it is not to follow a straight line and follow a curve.

Some things cannot be spoken bluntly, so one has to talk about them in a roundabout way; The opponent lessens the hostility.If we let our guard down, we will go around in circles.He even used the roundabout tactic of "Wang Gu talks about it" to lock it up.

In life, many people are "straight-hearted" and "one-sided". In life, they "knock down the south wall and never look back", and even ten bulls can't pull it back.

Such people should learn some detours, so that their brains have more grooves, their intestines have more twists and turns, and their nerves have more long endings.

In a nutshell: Do a few detours to ensure you get the best bang for your buck in a relationship.

Those who are difficult to get close to have a strong sense of vigilance in their hearts, so if you want to get close to them directly and obviously, you will not succeed nine times, but if you get along with them, you will use If there is a detour, the result will be different again.

The deceptive effect of detours will reduce their vigilance against you, so as to achieve your goal of getting close to them.

Detours are not only useful when people get along with each other, but they are also very useful in officialdom. There are countless examples of this.

For example, during the Jiaqing period of the Ming Dynasty, Li Yueqing, the "government official", was upright and clean.Once he discovered cheating in the scientific examination, he immediately wrote a memorial to the emperor, but the emperor ignored it.He played in person again, but the emperor was angered. He charged Li Le's mouth with a decree for deliberate exposure, and stipulated that no one should be allowed to expose it.

Mouth sealed, unable to eat.It was equivalent to condemning him to death. At this time, an official stood beside him.Walking up to Li Le, he scolded loudly without distinguishing between indiscriminate and indiscriminate: "Your word is too much, you deserve it!"

Since he was helping the emperor to scold Li Le, the emperor certainly couldn't blame him.

In fact, this person is Li Le's student.At this critical moment, he "quly" flattered and cleverly saved his teacher.If he ignores the situation.Offending Yan's "straight" remonstrance, not only can't save the teacher, but I'm afraid it will be hard to get rid of the burden.

The use of this method is really ingenious.Li —— Le doesn't understand the principle of "lubricating first" among people, and he is still far behind his own students.

To know our traditional culture.It is very particular about going around in circles.

The famous humor master Lin xx concluded that Chinese people (especially scholars) ask for help.It's like writing eight-legged essays.

The first paragraph:

Chinese people seldom do things as straightforwardly as foreign devils who "come here for something", because it is not elegant.If it is a stranger, it will be even more presumptuous.Chinese people pay attention to making a fuss in their words when they meet, with the beauty of stereotyped inheritance and transformation.

Not only has style, but also has structure, which can be roughly divided into four sections: the first section is about greetings and commenting on the climate.Such as "surname", "name", "long-awaited", "long-lost" and "today's weather haha" all belong to this category.

Lin-Yu-Tang called it the content of meteorology.It should play the role of "come to be in a safe place and then settle in love", that is, to connect emotions.These contents do have a lot of commonality in people's life space.not be resisted.

Second paragraph:

The second paragraph is about recounting the past and reminiscing about old friendships.

This is a deeper level. It is an in-depth process to transition from the life space common to everyone to the one that is more special to each other.Lin Yutang jokingly called it "Historical Studies".

"Maybe there is your nephew Ling and a certain classmate, maybe you lived in Nanxiao Street, and he lived in Wuliang Adult Hutong, so the relationship will be harmonious. If everyone is from Peking University, they know Zhimo, Shizhi, and even Gu Hongming, Lin Qinnan...then it will be more intimate and the story will be long."If this paragraph is done well, the relationship between the two parties may have a real harmony.

The third paragraph:

The third paragraph is about current events and expressing emotion.This is politics.

"The relationship is harmonious and the momentum is strong", so they can join hands to attack and enter the realm of Kan.The scope of the vertical and horizontal is very wide, "Including: China's immortality is unreasonable, national salvation policy, criticism of Gu Yue's three kings, horses, horses, and political leaders, etc.

There is also the statistics of following Mr. Sun - President - Li for several years to several years.For example, you heard a speech by President Sun in the third year of Guangxu, and this year is the second-tenth-nineth year of the Republic of China, and you deserve three-thirteen years in total. This is called following Total - 13 years. "

This paragraph is well done, the relationship is more harmonious, the momentum is strong, and even the meeting is so late, to the point of two threats.So far, it can be considered that it is time to start writing suddenly and talk about things with the camera.

Fourth paragraph:

Therefore, this fourth paragraph is called economics-entrusting "little things".

Ke stood up politely, picked up his hat, and then turned around and said: Now I have a small thing to do.Don't you know Mr. So-and-so?Could you please write a letter of introduction Yunyun.This paragraph should be natural and casual, without causing a lot of pressure on the other party or making the other party feel that he owes him a lot, but use the previous narration as a foreshadowing, close the pen abruptly, and summarize the whole text.

Of course, some people will say that the above things are just my one-sided words. There are so many "detours" in modern society. In fact, detours are indeed very common in modern society, but there are many At that time, modern people did not call the roundabout plan a roundabout plan, but a trick.

You heard it right, the approach is actually a detour, if you don’t believe it, then you can think carefully about the difference between the detour and the detour, and soon you will find that the detour is actually an application of the detour.

In reality, such examples are actually very common, and I won’t say anything special about them, just talk about devious tactics, that is, what kind of effect does the approach play when you are in a relationship!

When the person you are looking for is generally a character in the prime of life, it happens to be the age of "old at the top and young at the bottom", so when necessary, in addition to walking the husband-people-road-line, take the elderly and children The route, detours to approach the target, and draw each other's feelings closer are things worth thinking about.

How to do it, in fact, there are many reasons.

1 The elderly and children are easy to approach.

The elderly recuperate at home due to lack of energy, or retire at home due to advanced age, have no work to do, and are not allowed to do housework. The conversation is in the heart and there is nowhere to say it. Therefore, they often appear lonely.

If someone takes the initiative to approach the old man, even if it is to temporarily relieve the old man's loneliness, the old man will naturally be very happy.

Furthermore, psychology shows that older people are gentler, more benevolent, and approachable than young and middle-aged people, while children are simple, curious and active: a line of Tang poetry, a story, a strange face, and a flattery can quickly make people feel happy. Win the closeness of children.

2 The elderly and children like you to be close.

Generally speaking, the elderly are well-informed and rich in experience, and they store a large number of emotional or rational "experience products" in their mental warehouses. Whenever they have the opportunity, they are always willing to talk out, hoping to influence and move future generations, which is also regarded as gaining. Even a little consolation for life thinking.

In fact, the elderly stay at home for many years, and there are very few opportunities to tell stories and impart experience. Therefore, the elderly's physiology and psychology show a great degree of kindness and amiability.

Especially for young people, they are always willing to greet and talk enthusiastically.

As for children, if you sincerely treat each other with childlike innocence and bring novelty and joy to them, they will immediately worship and get close to you as a "happy king" or a "hero".

In a word, due to special physical and psychological reasons, the elderly and children like to be close to you.

3 Through the elderly and children, the whole family can be harmonious.

The elderly are elders, and the Chinese have a tradition of respecting, respecting and filial piety to the elderly.

If the old man is happy, the whole family will be active and happy.The Chinese also attach great importance to the succession of the family, and regard children as the future of the family.

Moreover, most of the children in modern families are "single seedlings", and the family members love and love them even more. If you can play with the children, family harmony will come naturally.

Of course, if you want to do this, you have to pay attention to some things.

There are a few points to pay attention to when taking the route of the elderly and children: 1. Understand and accumulate more knowledge about the old and the young.

To understand the elderly and children, in addition to perceptual investigation and observation, you should also make some rational accumulation at ordinary times, such as through newspapers, magazines, TV movies, etc., to accumulate knowledge about fitness for the elderly, leisure knowledge, children's game knowledge, intellectual stories, etc., so that At that time, "you can get it by chance, and use it to make use of it."

2. Take the initiative to make friends and make daily routines.

Conversation is the most direct means of information exchange in communication.Entering a family, seeing old people and children, if you want to create a harmonious atmosphere of "like old friends at first sight" when you meet, the door-to-door person should take the initiative to lead the topic to start the conversation, and should not wait for the family (the old man or the child) to search for topics and ask questions reluctantly.

Because in the short period of time when the two parties have just met, it is easier for the door-to-door to find suitable topics if they are mentally prepared. Besides, for the elderly, you take the initiative to speak up and show respect;

3 Do not underestimate, treat with caution.

Be courteous, kind-hearted, and courteous to the elderly.On the one hand, this shows your humility and honesty, and on the other hand, it shows your respect and admiration for the elders.

It is absolutely inadvisable to talk in a few words and talk, "hang" the old man aside or trample on one's feet.

Children are well-behaved by nature, they are easy to cry and fuss when they are happy, and a little discomfort can lead to "storms and storms".

You must exchange loyalty and childishness for joy, and you must not be condescending, posturing, or hypocritical.

The proper meaning of the title of "detour" is to flexibly change the route of doing things.When things go wrong, using his child's brains and hitting the old man's idea is an excellent way to gain favor and build relationships that cannot be ignored.

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