noffsinger Chapter 1590 Jealousy
Chapter 1590 Jealousy
"General, when will I execute your order? Is it now, or some day in the future?" Johnny asked Anthony Josh when to execute the order.
"Johnny, you go back and carry out my order now, and the range and direction of the corresponding sea area will be there later. You must pay attention to Johnny's mission this time, and complete this mission as soon as possible as soon as possible.
Remember, every time you find an island, you need to conduct all-round investigation and photographing of the island, both long-range and close-up, and all-round 360-degree photographs, and, as soon as you find the island, immediately report to I report the situation.
Johnny, the better you complete the task this time, the greater your credit. If you can complete the task in half a day or within a day, I promise that I will personally apply for the Congressional Medal of Honor for you, Johnny, now It's up to you! "
The Medal of Honor (English: medalhonor), the highest military medal of honor in the United States issued by the U.S. government in accordance with the U.S. Congress Act of 1862, is awarded to members of all branches of the U.S. armed forces, including the Army, The Navy, Air Force, Marine Corps, and Coast Guard, and the recipients must "demonstrate extraordinary valor and bravery at the risk of their lives in combat against the enemies of the United States."
It dates back to 1862 during the American Civil War and has been issued 3460 times to date, most recently in 2013.
Members of the Navy, Army, and Air Force are eligible for the honor, and each service has its own unique design for the Medal of Honor.It was issued by the President of the United States, who is the supreme commander of the United States Armed Forces.
It is often mistakenly called the "Congressional Medal of Honor" on its certificate of award "in the name of Congress"; in fact, the word "Congress" is not in the official title.
The Medal of Honor is the highest and very high-standard medal issued by the United States based on the U.S. Congress Act of 1862.
Individuals who receive the Medal of Honor must demonstrate bravery and tenacity.Deeds of self-sacrifice, fearlessness in the face of danger.The courage and dauntless spirit displayed must clearly exceed his companions, and convincing proof of service performance must be awarded for this medal.The recommendation must be considered from the criteria of outstanding merit.
The Medal of Honor can only be awarded by the President of the United States, who is the Supreme Commander of the United States Armed Forces.
The Medal of Honor is the only medal in the United States that cannot be legally traded.It is also illegal for a non-obtained person to wear it in public.Violators shall be fined and imprisoned for not more than one year in accordance with Section 18, Section 33, Chapter 704 of the US Code.
Obtaining the Medal of Honor does not mean that the recipient can enjoy special personal privileges, nor does it mean that he is exempted from his military obligations, but he still has certain benefits:
Individuals receiving the Medal of Honor may travel free of charge on Military Airlift Command aircraft, subject to space availability;
Children of individuals receiving the Medal of Honor may be admitted to the U.S. Military Academy without quotas as long as they meet the specified requirements;
Certificate of recipients of the Medal of Honor, which can be inherited by their children;
Army personnel receiving the Medal of Honor may apply to the U.S. Department of the Army Headquarters to have their name listed on the Medal of Honor Register.Persons listed in the roster or otherwise eligible can enjoy a special pension of US$200 per month for life after application.
The establishment of the Medal of Honor can be traced back to the American Civil War in 1861. Prior to that, from the War of Independence to the Mexican-Mexico War in the 19s, the United States had established medals to commend soldiers for their bravery.But most of them are temporary and will be abolished after the end of the war.
After the outbreak of the American Civil War in 1861, James Grimes (James Grimes) suggested that the US Army General Commander General Winfield Scott established a permanent honor for bravery and meritorious servicemen, but Scott did not Accepted, however, this proposal was accepted by the U.S. Navy. President Lincoln signed a decree on December 1861, 12, establishing the Navy Medal of Valor, which was awarded to "those who have performed bravely in the present war different from ordinary people. Naval officers, sailors and marines".
Secretary of the Navy Ji --- Dee --- En? Wei ---- Er --- Si (gideon welles) commissioned the Philadelphia Mint to design and manufacture this medal.
On July 1862, 7, the U.S. Army succeeded the U.S. Navy.Introduced the Medal of Valor into the Army's award system, which was later collectively known as the Medal of Honor and became the highest honor for all American soldiers.
The Medal of Honor was first awarded to sailors in 1861 and has since been awarded to soldiers in the army.Since then.More than 3400 medals were awarded to U.S. service members and Coast Guard members, as well as a handful of civilians for valor.
The Medal of Honor is awarded only to the bravest of warriors, and only to those whose bravery can be proven.So there are very few Medal of Honor recipients.
In fact the only post-Vietnam awards were to Sergeant Guy-Ray I. Go-Den and Sergeant Major Lan-- Del--d. Shughart, and Sergeant Major Paul--Ross--Mi--S for his bravery in Iraq--La--K.
Medal of Honor was not awarded to those serving in Operation Sandstorm and in Grenada, Banana, and Lebanon.
乔-——治?华-——盛-——顿将军在1792年8月7日创造了军事功绩勋章。但在独立战争后就废弃了，欧洲国家依然关注米国人的军事装饰品。然而。在米国内战中英勇的战斗精神和勇气必须得到表彰，参议院在1861年12月对陆军和与陆军样式相差不多的海军勋章进行了审核，这两种勋章在1862年2月17日立法通过。
The resolution was proposed: the President of the United States authorized the issuance of two thousand "Medals of Honor".As a symbol and as a gift in the name of Congress.
in the Civil War.Among the same servicemen, many officers and enlisted men who did not receive a commission will become famous for their outstanding performance and courage in the field of battle.
To encourage brave soldiers in war.$10000 was taken from the treasury to cover the cost of making the medal.
The version originally designed for the Army was designed by Christian Schussel and engraved by Anthony C. Pacquot. The design of the pendant was also approved by the Navy, but the Navy did not adopt the Army's pendant decoration and medal buckle.
On March 1863, 3, Congress amended the original law to expand the scope of the award of the medal, and all officers have the right to apply for the medal.
由于非军事组织效仿勋章的样式导致勋章的滥用。1896年，勋章的绶带进行了改变的提议在国会联合决议上以54%的投票通过。1896年5月2日，一个带有玫瑰花状盾牌绶带将用来悬挂勋章，总-——统提出带有的盾章绶带在1896年11月10日战争部命令中发布。
On April 1904, 4, Congress approved a new design for the medal.The new pattern adopts the design of Major General George-George-Ray-S-Bee.The new design is still in use today.The medal is hung around the neck with a ribbon, and the medal is higher than other medals on the left chest.
The style of the medal ribbon we see now was adopted in 1944. The ribbon is tied in the collar of the shirt, and cannot be exposed outside the collar of the shirt and the outside of the jacket, and the medal is hung above the tie.
Medal style:
navy medal
The current U.S. Navy Medal of Honor is composed of a bronze five-star, with clover at the top of each foot, surrounded by a circle of laurel leaves, and oak leaves as decorations at each corner.In the center of the medal, a circle of 34 stars represents the 1862 states of the United States in 34. Minerva humanizes the pattern of the United States in the center of the entire medal. Her left hand is placed on the Roman power stick that symbolizes strength, and her right hand holds a shield that symbolizes the armed forces of the United States.The medal is suspended from the ribbon by an anchor.
air force medal
Surrounded by a wreath of green laurel, the main chapter consists of a gold five-star, with shamrocks adorning the top of each foot and oak leaves in each corner.The central pattern of the medal is the head of the Goddess of Freedom.The five stars are hung by a valor ornament, which includes a thunderbolt symbolizing the Air Force.
Army Medal
A golden five-pointed star, each decorated with a shamrock.The diagonal is 1 inch wide.The five stars are surrounded by green laurel leaves, and a small plaque with the words 'valor' (heroic) hangs above the five stars.An eagle with outstretched wings stands on the sign, and the head of Minerva among the five stars is surrounded by 'united statesamerica'.There is a small oak leaf on each corner of the five stars, and on the reverse side of a small plate with 'valor' (heroic), engraved with 'the congress to' and engraved honors.
Medal of Honor Award Example: During the American Civil War, standard bearer was the most dangerous job in the Army with significant responsibilities.Soldiers fight according to the instructions of the flag, and the banner bearer who holds the flag tightly will attract heavy fire from the enemy.
On November 1863, 11, Joseph E. Brandle, the standard-bearer of the 16th Michigan Infantry, participated in a battle near Lenoire, Tenn. "Twice wounded and missing an eye, 'he' clung to the flag in his hands until ordered to rest by his regimental commander."
During the Second World War, Corporal Alvin C? Yorke from the 82nd Division, on October 1918, 10, bravely and fearlessly in the chatel-chehery of Lanxi State, severely damaged the army of the Chariot State.
He cites the following: "After the sacrifice of three commanders, Corporal Yorke stepped forward, led seven men, and knocked out a machine-gun emplacement that made the platoon, including his, Four officers and 128 soldiers were killed."
On July 1943, 7, Rob-B-T-K-Ray-Ge from the 11rd Infantry Division favoratta in West-West, led his in the war soldiers fought bravely.
His record reads: "Lieutenant K-Ray-Gegg embarked on the dangerous work of identifying and destroying a hidden machine-gun emplacement which halted his troops' advance. Three officers had failed and been wounded in the previous attempt.
Lieutenant C-Ray-Geil zigzags 35 yards in front of the target before being spotted.He located the machine gun before it could fire wildly, marched over it, and eliminated three enemies with his carbine.After removing this obstacle.His troops moved on.
Shortly advancing to a ridge, Lieutenant C-Ray-Gegg and his platoon.In a position lacking cover and concealment, it encountered fire from about 100 enemy soldiers.In order to keep the troops fighting, he drew the enemy's fire and moved the troops to the safety of the hilltop.
With no hope of survival, he fired fiercely at the enemy until he heroically rushed into the enemy's encirclement at a distance of only 25 yards. Finally, he eliminated 5 enemy troops and wounded 3 enemy troops, because the enemy concentrated all The fire was on him, so his platoon evacuated to safety.
Lieutenant K-Ray-Ge died heroically under enemy fire, but his bravery inspired his soldiers to fight the enemy.deal heavy blows to the enemy. "
On October 1993, 10, the Mi Army raided Mo--Ja--Disha with a 3-member assault force to capture the largest local army--Lord Mu--Han-Mo-De Fa --La --- He? Ai -- De -- Dee's right-hand man, but because two Black Hawk helicopters were shot down one after another, when the ground troops could not rush to the second crash site code-named super160, the Delta Force Sniper Guy-Ray I. Gordon and Army Sergeant First Class Land-Der-D. Shughart (also translated as Garry Gordon/Randy Shughart) volunteered to go to the crash site.
The last two people desperately resisted the siege of the militia to rescue the crew members, and finally died on the battlefield.
Two Delta team members saved the super64 pilot Michael Du-Lan with their own lives, and were awarded the Congressional Medal of Honor by President Clarke-Linton.
2009年9月8日。阿——富-——汗政府军和米军在前往库-——纳--尔--省--甘-——加--尔-——村准备会见几名当地部落长老的途中在山谷中遭到伏击。在山谷入口原地待命的米国海军陆战队员达——科--塔?梅-——耶与炮兵中士胡--安?罗--德--里--格--兹?查--韦--斯得到消息后，前后五次进入山谷，救出13名米军士兵和23名阿——富-——汗政府军士兵，最后找回了4名米军阵亡士兵的遗体。
With this heroic display.Mayer was promoted to sergeant and awarded the Medal of Honor, and Cha-Weiss was awarded the Navy Cross.
到2005年为止。荣誉勋章共计颁发了3460次，其中615次是在获得人去世后追授的。有19人获颁两枚荣誉勋章。其中14人两次获得此荣耀，而5人在一次内同时获颁陆军及海军的荣誉勋章。
The Medal of Honor's only female recipient, Mary Hawke, was a Civil War surgeon.Her medals, along with other noncombatant recipients, were abolished in 1917.It was not re-recognized until 1977 during the tenure of Ka-T-President-President
The eligibility for the Medal of Honor is not limited to U.S. citizens. 61 Canadians who served in the U.S. Army have received this honor, most of them during the U.S. Civil War.
The Medal of Honor is the highest-level medal in the United States. Even a general would be jealous of such a medal. Don’t look at Anthony Josh. He is now a lieutenant general and the head of the Western United Warrior Force. He has great power. However, the Medal of Honor in the United States Anthony Josh didn't think so, he was also jealous of the Medal of Honor.
Even Anthony Josh was jealous of Medal of Honor, and Johnny was even more jealous, so Anthony Josh just made a promise.Johnny's fighting spirit was completely aroused, and he replied in a very loud voice: "General, please rest assured that Johnny will complete the task you entrusted to me very satisfactorily. I will never let this time If there is any mistake in the mission, General, Johnny assures you!"
In order to get the Medal of Honor, Johnny is going all out. He has already made up his mind in his heart that this time he must complete the task assigned to him by Anthony Josh very satisfactorily. Only in this way can he get the Medal of Honor.
"Very good, Johnny, I have confidence in you. Go ahead and do your best to complete this mission." Anthony Josh encouraged Johnny.
"Yes, General, then I will go down."
"Okay, let's go!" Anthony Josh shrugged, and then told Johnny again: "Johnny, come on!"
"Yes, General!" Johnny saluted Anthony Josh before leaving the office.
Johnny just left the office.William Turner, who stood aside, said with a bit of sourness, "General, are you really going to help him apply for the Medal of Honor?"
"Of course, as long as he can complete the mission this time within half a day or a day, I will definitely help him apply for the Medal of Honor. As long as we find the gold mine, he deserves the Medal of Honor!" Anthony Yue Shi gave an affirmative answer without hesitation, which made William Turner's heart even more sour.
"General. Johnny is only the person in charge of the drone reconnaissance unit. His contribution is so great!" William Turner's tone was full of jealousy.Anthony Josh didn't need to 'smell' much to feel the overwhelming jealousy.
"Hahahaha......!" Anthony Josh laughed loudly: "William. Are you jealous that Johnny can get my application form?" Anthony Josh looked at William with a smile on his face. Turner, this makes William Turner a little embarrassed.
"Yes, General, I'm just jealous of that Johnny. In terms of credit, I'm no less than Johnny, but why can Johnny get the application for the Medal of Honor you gave him, but I can't?
The Medal of Honor is the highest-level medal. I am very jealous of such a medal. General, I also want the Medal of Honor. "Soldiers speak so directly. If they are in the unit or in the government-government department, the people there will definitely not answer like this.
In the unit, when other people are jealous of other people's ability to obtain higher positions, or want to vent their dissatisfaction with more bonuses, they always tell other people secretly that they will not go directly to the supervisor. He said that it is not good for him to speak ill of people behind his back. Moreover, his dissatisfaction in his heart is actually his dissatisfaction with the supervisor. In this case, once the supervisor finds out, it will definitely look good on him.
The same is true for people in government departments to vent their jealousy, or dissatisfaction. He dare not vent his dissatisfaction in front of his superiors, even if the superiors have a good relationship with him. Same.
In the officialdom, the most important thing is superiority and inferiority. As for the orders of superiors, you, a subordinate, can only obey and have no opinion. Once you cross this line, there will be a thunderbolt waiting for you. All your superiors, Whether it's the superiors you are very close to, or those superiors you can't see, they will attack you.
At the least, you will be transferred to the darkest and darkest corner, and at the worst, you will be fired directly.
In officialdom, no superior likes his subordinates not following his orders.If you can resist and disobey the orders of your superiors today, then in the future, such things will continue to appear. Moreover, you will not give your superiors face. If the superiors do not punish you, then how will the superiors control others? Ah!
Therefore, whether it is to show you some color, or to deter other subordinates, so that other subordinates dare not follow suit, the superiors will severely punish you. This is how the officialdom pays attention to superiority and inferiority!
"William, you...!" Anthony Josh glanced at William Turner with a bit of resentment: "William, the Medal of Honor is the highest medal, not only you want it very much, but also me I really want to get it, but if I want to get the Medal of Honor, I have to pay a lot, and I have to make a great contribution to the country.
The Medal of Honor is the highest honor, so it cannot tolerate any slight stains. Now you are jealous that someone else got my application, and you feel jealous in your heart. If I also give you the application for the Medal of Honor because of this.So you got it, and that's the biggest stain on the Medal of Honor.
There are many people with greater credit than you in history.They also didn't get the Medal of Honor, either.Even if they don't get the Medal of Honor, are these people talking behind others' backs and being jealous?No, none of them are as jealous of others as you are, complaining to their superiors that they can't get the Medal of Honor for such high credit.
William, as a soldier, can be jealous of others, because only you can be jealous of others.Only then can you have the motivation to move forward, but jealousy can only serve as your motivation to move forward, and cannot be an excuse for you to complain. Once you have complaints in your heart, that jealousy will destroy you.
William, I will remember what happened this time, and I want to make me forget about it completely, that William.You have to come up with grades, and I think finding gold mines is a pretty good grade. "
Anthony Josh criticized William Turner's jealousy very seriously. He could allow his subordinates to be jealous because.These jealousies are the driving force for the soldiers to move forward. Even Anthony Josh himself was jealous of others when he was young.
Like those officers who came out of a better military academy than the one Anthony Josh attended.Every time he saw these officers of the same age who were one level higher than himself, Anthony Josh was filled with envy and jealousy.However, at that time, Anthony Josh was not overwhelmed by jealousy.He took the jealousy in his heart as his motivation to move forward, and finally Anthony Josh succeeded.
Ten years later, Anthony Josh directly became the superior of those soldiers of the same age that he envied and envied, and he was still the direct superior. Therefore, in Anthony Josh's heart, jealousy is the driving force for life!
Jealousy, what is jealousy?
Jealousy refers to a mental state of indifference, belittlement, rejection, or hostility towards the lucky or potential lucky people in order to compete for certain rights and interests. Everyone has a monkey king mentality and a revenge mentality, so As long as you let it go, jealousy may arise. It is an uncomfortable taste, and if it is serious, it will cause hatred. Remember that once jealousy arises, you must overcome it.
Jealousy is commonly known as "pink eye disease, jealousy, sour grapes when you can't eat grapes" and so on.In terms of inner feelings, jealousy manifests in the early stage as a sense of pressure from comparison to disappointment; in the middle stage, it manifests as a sense of psychological frustration from shame to humiliation; in the later stage, it manifests as a venting behavior from dissatisfaction to resentment.
Jealousy is a relatively complex psychological state, which includes anxiety, fear, sorrow, suspicion, shame, self-blame, depression, hatred, hostility, resentment, revenge and other unpleasant psychological states.
Other people's natural figure, appearance, and daily intelligence can become objects of envy; other factors related to social evaluation, such as honor, status, achievement, property, prestige, etc., can also easily become objects of their envy.
The "Psychological Dictionary" says: Jealousy is a complex emotional state composed of shame, anger, resentment, etc. when comparing with others and finding that one is inferior to others in terms of talent, reputation, status, or situation.
There are generally three reasons for jealousy:
One: Jealousy stems from competition in the same field
Through observation, we can find that jealousy is hierarchical.Jealousy and jealous behavior can only occur between two competitors in the same competitive field.
Between multiple spouses of a man, between multiple suitors of a woman, between two competitors for a position, between classmates who want to rank first in the exam, between colleagues, between other people in the same competitive field Intense jealousy often erupts between two people who are in constant contact.
People will only envy those who are in the same competitive field with themselves and who are better than themselves, but will not be jealous of those who are not in the same field as themselves, nor will they be jealous of those who are weaker than themselves in the same competitive field.
Zhou Yu is jealous of Zhuge Liang because Zhuge Liang is in the same field as him and is more capable than him; Zhou Yu is not jealous of Liu Bei, Cao Cao, and Sun Quan because they are not in the same field of competition.Snow White is jealous of the stepmother and queen because Snow White is more beautiful than the stepmother and queen in the field of competition for who is more beautiful.
Two: Jealousy stems from a broken sense of superiority
The die-hard love logic blog said: "Jealousy is a sense of superiority that is destroyed. It can also be called the psychological reaction after the sense of superiority is destroyed." Only when one has a sense of superiority and is surpassed by others can one It will produce jealousy, and if you don't have a sense of superiority, it will only manifest as inferiority complex and envy.without any jealousy.
For example, we often see such a situation.Children are envious when they see other people's parents holding their own children, but not jealous.But when he saw that his parents were holding someone else's child instead of his own, he was not happy.
why?Because it does not have any sense of superiority in front of other people's parents.But in front of their parents, they have an absolute sense of superiority. This is the most obvious jealousy in children.
Likewise, a beggar who has nothing would never be envious of the emperor's power, status, wealth, and chances of attaining the throne. Compared with the emperor, he has never felt a sense of personal superiority in these areas, and without a sense of personal superiority there is no possibility of envy. .
Only those who can feel superior to the emperor will be jealous of the emperor, such as the emperor's brothers and powerful ministers.
Three: Jealousy stems from the combination of monkey king psychology and revenge psychology
Each of us is born in life.They are all born with a strong sense of self-esteem, that is, they are the Monkey King, the most important, the strongest, and the undisputed No. [-] person. This is the Monkey King that everyone has. psychology.
When someone regards himself as the most important person or recognizes himself as the strongest person, people will show very happy, very comforting, very happy emotions.
On the contrary.When someone does not regard himself as the most important person, and admits that he is indeed inferior to others, people will also show emotions such as inferiority complex, sadness, anxiety, anxiety, irritability, and fear, often accompanied by pain.
This means that.The monkey king psychology is closely related to people's anxiety reactions, which can make people feel pain and negative emotions.
When competitors in the same field as yourself perform very well in front of you.And I also admit in my heart that this person is indeed outstanding and better than myself.A message from a truly remarkable competitor and his supporters when he can win more people's support and affection than himself.And the information fed back from the bottom of his heart will tell him: that truly outstanding competitor is the real monkey king, but he is not.
The feedback from the bottom of my heart that I am indeed not the Monkey King will immediately dampen my strong "I am the only one" Monkey King mentality.
Finding out that you are not as good as others, that you are not the strongest person, but the weakest and most pitiful person, this information will seriously dampen everyone's Monkey King mentality.According to the characteristics of the monkey king's psychology, we can know that the bruised monkey king's psychology is often accompanied by negative emotions such as low self-esteem, sadness, anxiety, anxiety, irritability, fear, etc., and these emotions will make him very painful.
A person's excellence brings endless pain to himself. The psychological mechanism of people's revenge determines that people will take measures to retaliate against the person. Personal injury, property damage, and verbal injury are the things that develop to this point. A very normal phenomenon, unless a person restrains himself.
Jealousy is a very common psychology among people.People have a monkey king mentality and a revenge mentality, so everyone may feel jealous.However, people with particularly strong monkey king psychology and revenge psychology are the ones who are most likely to erupt in jealousy.
Jealousy is dangerous, and its consequences are often serious. Of course, its appearance is inevitable, but through the guidance of education, we can reduce the risk factor of jealousy to a minimum or eliminate it, which is achievable.
Jealousy can also be divided into two categories, one is rational jealousy, which is good, and the other is irrational jealousy, which is extremely bad.
[-]. Rational jealousy
If you want to maintain a long-term relationship with someone, but you worry about your relationship with your lover because of his concern for others, you will express a reasonable jealousy.
For example, the person you love may empathize with another person and alienate you, and you will lose the opportunity to get along with him or himself. From this, you can easily prove that the other person will leave you .It will make you suffer losses in all aspects, so you will never like this feeling, so you have a serious sense of frustration, which is rational jealousy.
In relationships, jealousy is a common psychological feeling, even if they love each other deeply.Also because of a certain event, one of the parties will still be jealous.
Rational jealousy won't lead you to extreme tactics.When you encounter emotional problems, you will respond with love.That is to say, make up for one's own love, and use a more perfect love to firmly tie the other party.
[-]. Irrational jealousy
After some people feel uneasy about their relationship, they will use very extreme methods, such as finding out the other party’s clues like Sherlock Holmes, or tapping the other party’s phone, or peeking at the other party’s text messages, or even sending someone to follow the other party .
These extreme tactics are not conducive to solving the problem, but will hasten the collapse of your cherished family, which stems from "irrational jealousy".
Thought patterns that produce irrational jealousy typically include the following:
1. "I am in marriage. There must be a guarantee that the other party is only attracted to me and treats me with endless love."
2. "If I'm not the only object of my lover's heart, I'm terrible, and I absolutely can't stand this kind of thing."
3. "If my lover is moved by someone else, it means I am not good."
Life, including relationships, is fundamentally not guaranteed, and love is not what marriage is all about.Marriage is a way of life, no one will love you forever.It is useless to exchange each other's loyalty with words and emotions.
So how to get the fidelity of marriage?You have to put your heart and soul into creating an intimacy with your partner that only accommodates the two of you.And manage this intimate relationship well, so that your lover will no longer want to establish the same relationship with others, and at the same time be very happy to get along with you.
envy.There is a hidden tendency to destroy the happiness of others, and a state of mind that feels helpless about one's so-called misfortune.It is precisely because of this mentality.Only then can the footsteps of society unfold.
Sha-shi-bi-ya said: "Beware of jealousy, it's a green-eyed monster!" ' A man who is jealous is hateful.They can't tolerate the happiness and excellence of others, and will use various means to destroy the happiness of others. Some use gossip to slander others, and some use despicable means;
Jealous people are pitiful, they have low self-esteem and darkness, they can't enjoy the beauty of sunshine, they can't appreciate the joy of life, they live in their dark world;
Jealous people are so pathetic, the "disease of the mind" will spread to all parts of the body, causing adverse reactions on the body, seven diseases and eight diseases come uninvited, it is a poison that destroys humanity and health.
Jealousy is very harmful. It not only destroys the understanding, trust and friendship established between people, but also sows countless hatred, resentment and distrust among people, which seriously hinders and destroys interpersonal relationships. .
People often have this kind of experience in life: Once they see others luckier than themselves, they will have a special feeling in their hearts. This "taste" is the emotional experience of jealousy.
When people's psychological activities surpass this "taste" and continue to move forward, jealousy will develop and form accordingly, and once jealous behavior occurs, the level of jealousy will be deepened.
In this way, jealousy will continue to haunt you like a demon, making it difficult for you to get rid of it.
Looking through the annals of ancient and modern Chinese and foreign history, envious people often start with the purpose of harming others and end with the result of harming themselves.
Jealousy is a direct challenge to morality itself, that is, using a moral code or behavior that is inferior to others to demean the other and elevate oneself.
People with this kind of jealousy are often very good at disguising, or extremely hypocritical people.
If someone in life is jealous of someone who is highly respected, he is not only jealous of virtue, but mainly jealous of respect.Because prestige will win the attention of the public, which will directly induce jealousy.
Jealousy and jealousy are the most typical manifestations of jealousy, that is, jealousy of those who are stronger than themselves in terms of ability.
Generally speaking, young people like to be competitive, but if they try to take shortcuts to surpass their opponents in ability, they will often induce jealousy, especially when they see that the opponent is going to surpass or has surpassed themselves in ability Jealousy is most likely to be induced when it is not shown outwardly.
This is because it takes a certain amount of time to acquire abilities, and within a certain period of time, one's incompetence may be exposed.
When you are in a hurry, you will regard the development of other people's abilities as a blow to yourself, and it is too late to seriously improve your own abilities, so you have to resort to deceit, or simply dress yourself up by belittling, slandering, and attacking the other party. .
Jealousy, that is, jealousy of those who have made certain achievements in various aspects and thus have a certain reputation.
Its characteristic is that there is a relatively strong selfish desire to pursue fame, but due to limited ability, it is impossible to obtain the reputation that one wants to obtain through one's own ability. Rewards, professional titles, academic titles and other reputations have produced extremely belittling and destructive thoughts.
On the issue of reputation, whether it is to be jealous of others or to be envied by others, the essence is the result of not viewing reputation correctly.
Generally speaking, being jealous of money refers to being jealous of those who have higher income than oneself or some people with special income.
Others have become rich through some channels, and their own material life is obviously in dire straits. At this time, psychological feelings such as discomfort, dissatisfaction, and complaints will follow one after another, which will lead to resentment and venting of anger.In order to achieve the purpose of emotional catharsis, slander, slander and other means will be adopted.
Jealousy is a jealousy that often appears in daily life, and its specific manifestations are various.
For example, the feeling of irritability caused by seeing other people blooming together in pairs; the feeling of resentment that arises when the person you like is happy and in love with others, and so on.
It should be pointed out that the jealousy directly induced by jealousy is the fastest-growing kind of jealousy, and once this kind of jealousy is formed, the hurt and aggressiveness are extremely strong, and it is often in an irrational state. in the state.
Jealousy is traditionally called "jealousy". When jealousy is rampant, its momentum is extremely fierce, and the consequences are unimaginable and predictable.
The various forms of jealousy mentioned above are not isolated, but are inextricably linked, and sometimes several forms are intertwined.It can also be seen from this that how harmful is jealousy and how much it hinders our daily life!
Therefore, we have to overcome the psychology of jealousy. Only in this way, our life, life, and future will be bright and great! (To be continued..)
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