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Chapter 1286 Marriage Taboo

In a person's life, marriage is the most memorable event, and it can also be said to be the most festive moment in life. On such a festive day, no matter how many taboos or embarrassments there are, they should be obeyed. ?. .

Because marriage is a new beginning of a person's life, which means that you have found your other half in your life, and it would be better to give your new beginning of life the most auspicious start. Therefore, when you get married, Don't ignore some taboos of marriage, because this is another new beginning in your life.

There are many taboos in the process of marriage, and there are actually many taboos that need to be paid attention to during the marriage proposal stage.

Proposal of marriage refers to the specific negotiating activities for marriage candidates within the scope of choosing a marriage spouse and in the manner permitted by folk customs. It serves for the engagement of men and women.In the stage of marriage proposal, there are some taboo regulations that need to be followed.

Avoid looking for a talkative matchmaker to avoid disasters and tragedies.It is generally believed that the matchmaker should avoid publicizing the failure of the matchmaking, and try to avoid people's eyes and ears at the beginning, otherwise not only the marriage cannot be said, but also be reviled by others.

Before the mediation is completed, the distant relatives and neighbors will know about it, which will damage the woman's reputation.If it is still not done in the end, the woman will think that she has lost her "fame", which will lead to disaster or tragedy.In real life, when young men and women fall in love, no matter whether they are acquainted by themselves or introduced by others, they are very secretive and secretive at the beginning, and they are gradually made public only after reaching a certain level. This is also the reason.

This is the development and evolution of this folk taboo custom for thousands of years.

After the marriage proposal stage, the next stage is the acceptance stage, and there are some taboos in the acceptance stage.

Do not use dead animals when accepting the lottery.In layman's terms, Nacai means that the man's family invites a matchmaker to the woman's family to propose marriage.In ancient times, live geese were often used as gifts when proposing marriages. Nowadays, chickens, geese and other birds are also offered as gifts in many places.But whether it is geese or other poultry, live ones should be used as dowry gifts, and dead ones should not be used.

Because marriage is a great joy in life, it is too inauspicious to be associated with death.

The taboo of marriage age and zodiac.on marriageable age.All dynasties have their own regulations, and each nation has its own taboos.

Some men and women whose age is not suitable for marriage, if they still cannot help marriage, they will suffer hardships after marriage, or commit crimes, punching, restraining and harming. In order to avoid these disasters, there are many taboos on the age of marriage.

For example, women of the Daur nationality should avoid getting married at the age when their mother gave birth to themselves, and avoid getting married at even-numbered ages such as sixteen, eighteen and twenty.Men have no such taboo.In the taboo custom of marriage age, the age difference between a man and a woman should not be too large, and marriage should not be too early or too late, all of which are reasonable and scientific.

The zodiac is the zodiac sign of a person. No matter what year a person is born, there will be a corresponding animal as the zodiac sign.

When marrying, there is a folk saying that women who belong to tigers and sheep should be avoided. The common belief that avoiding women who belong to tigers probably comes directly from the people's psychology of "fear of tigers".

There is an ancient proverb that "women belong to the sheep and keep the empty house", which is the effect of the popular folk saying "the eyes are white and the five husbands keep the house".Because the eyes of sheep are considered to be "exposed four white".Therefore, women who belong to sheep will be unlucky and become taboo objects for men when they marry.

After the acceptance stage is over, it is the engagement stage, and during the engagement, there are many taboos that need to be paid attention to.

Engagement is commonly known as betrothal, through engagement to determine the relationship between a man and a woman to be married.It is an important thing before marriage.

The first item in the engagement was Najib.The so-called Najib is a kind of etiquette to inform the woman of the marriage news obtained through divination after asking her name.

There are many taboos in "fixed employment".The purpose is to ward off evil spirits and eliminate disasters.For example, the deposit at the time of appointment must be an even number, avoiding an odd number, and the appointment ceremony must also be in pairs, avoiding an odd number.

The second item of engagement is the levy.Nazheng is also called "Nabi", "Big Engagement", "Great Gift" and so on. Once a man and a woman have reached a marriage agreement, the man's family will formally send the dowry gift (commonly known as "betrothal gift") to the woman's family. This is the ritual of Nazheng. present.

There are also many taboos in the etiquette of Nazheng to avoid unfortunate things from happening.For example, the number of betrothal gifts should not be odd.Avoid giving women shoes.This contains the psychology of preventing the woman from slipping off with her shoes on.

Once the marriage is agreed upon, it officially enters the stage of marriage.First of all, you have to choose the time to get married, that is, you have entered the period of application period, and at this stage, you need to think about some taboos.

Asking for a date is one of the "six ceremonies". In the old days, it meant that the man's family would choose the date of marriage, prepare the gift and inform the woman's family, asking for her consent.There are some taboos in choosing the date of marriage because of seeking good luck and avoiding bad luck.

According to the records of "China Customs and Customs", in the old Nanjing area, "the man's family wants to marry, first send the male and female horoscope to the star family Suoji, so that there will be no offence, no punishment, and a good day. The whole red card will record when the new couple takes a bath. Where the water falls, when the newlyweds get on the sedan chair, when they get married, and whom to avoid, these are called sending off the day."

In terms of marriage, there are taboo regulations for the year, month, and day.

The first is the taboo in certain years.The folks have a choice of which year to arrange marriage, and some years must be avoided to drive away evil spirits.

In many areas of the Han nationality, it is taboo to get married in the year when there is no beginning of spring, thinking that this year is a "widowed year", and "a widowed year marries and does not raise cubs".

As for whether to avoid the year with two beginning of spring, different places are very different. Some places think it is good to get married in this year, which means "Double Spring and Double Happiness". Some places think it is not good to get married in this year because of " Shuangchun is happy and happy."

The Dai people in Dehong have the custom of avoiding "evil and happy" and avoid holding weddings during the year when the elders of the direct relatives pass away because of filial piety.

Followed by the taboo in certain months.The Han, Wa and other ethnic minorities avoid marriages in May, July and September, saying that these months are "evil months" with many ghosts.Due to the presence of evil spirits, it is not easy to get married during this period.

Again it is taboo on certain days.The Han nationality and many ethnic minorities have the custom of avoiding single-day marriages, which reflects the folk belief that "good things come in pairs".

In some places of the Han nationality, it is especially taboo to marry on July [-]th, which reflects people's psychology that husbands and wives should stay together, instead of being separated for a long time like Cowherd and Weaver Girl, who can only meet on July [-]th.

After the four stages of marriage proposal, acceptance, engagement, and application period have passed, the marriage stage has really entered.There are also many taboos in the marriage stage, and there are 22 items that need to be paid attention to:

1. Raw flowers are easy to wither, so it is taboo in marriage, only Lianhua and pomegranate can't help.Because the red petals of the former bloom from the heart of the leaf, its shape can imply that the daughter-in-law gets married and waits for her husband sincerely, while the latter implies many children and grandchildren.

?The bride's clothes should not have pockets, so as not to take away the fortune of her mother's family.

3. From bed rest to the eve of the wedding.The groom-to-be should not sleep in the new bed alone, but find an underage boy to sleep on the new bed with the groom.Otherwise, it is considered a bad omen, as the saying goes, "If you are trapped in an empty shop, you will not die, but you will also die."

4. On the day of the wedding, when the bride goes out, sister-in-law and sister-in-law must avoid each other and cannot send each other off. Because 'gu' has the same pronunciation as 'solitary', and 'sister-in-law' has the same pronunciation as 'sao'. ? Both are unlucky.

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?On the day of marriage, when the bride leaves her natal home, everyone should cry as soon as possible. "Crying and crying, not crying and not crying" is taboo.

6. Three days after the marriage, the newlyweds must rush back to their husband's house before sunset on that day.Cannot stay overnight.In case there are special reasons for being unable to go home, the husband and wife should also sleep separately to avoid the bloodshed of the bride during her honeymoon.Colliding with the natal family made the natal family unlucky.

7. On the way to get married, if the sedan chair meets the sedan chair, it is called "Xi Chong Xi", which will bring bad luck.The solution is to set off firecrackers for each other, or exchange the flowers prepared by the matchmakers on both sides, which is called flower exchange.

8. Pregnant women and those who bring filial piety are not allowed to witness the new couple going out or passing through the door, let alone touch the new couple's clothes and all the items in the new house.

9. When the groom picks up the bride at the bride's house, the bride may leave her mother's house or cry with joy due to over-excitement. This is also very common and not a problem (it is even a good thing. Leave the "water head" to flourish at the bride's house).But you can't shed tears after passing through the door to the man's house.

1. The bride should not wear "old shoes" on the auspicious day of her wedding.All wedding shoes, embroidered shoes and evening shoes should be all new.If you are afraid, the new shoes will be hard and uncomfortable.It is better to use high-quality soft leather, the size may be looser and thicker.It is also not advisable to wear high heels that are too high.

11. The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, as it will make her a shameful husband.

1. When the bride enters the door of the man's house, she should not step on the threshold, but should step over it.

13. If the newlyweds are married by "climbing their heads", that is, the elder brother of the groom, the newcomers must wear under the crotch of the unmarried elder brother to show that they are "offended" before they can go out.If it is the elder sister who is "topped", because some people think that wearing it under a female skirt will be "underdeveloped", so they will give a skirt to the unmarried sister instead, commonly known as "aunt's skirt".Unmarried brothers and sisters should not witness the new couple going out or passing through the door, and should temporarily avoid to a higher place, such as going to the upper floor.

14. When the bride enters the man's house, it is not advisable for Weng and Gu to look towards the gate to see the bride enter, but to avoid it for a while to avoid conflict.

1. Marriage couplets should be hung up before the "going up" (i.e. the eve of marriage) at the latest, and can be removed after one month of marriage.Men and women have different couplets, so you need to distinguish clearly when purchasing.

16. When the woman remarries, she can no longer wear skirts and gowns, and it is not advisable to wear red clothes. Pink, orange, gold or silver should be chosen instead.In addition, there is no need to "shangtou" anymore, because "shangtou" means "adulthood", and you have already "adult" when you marry for the first time.There is no need to bring suckling pigs when "returning to the door in the second dynasty".

17. The man’s second marriage does not need to be “upper” again. If the reason for the second marriage is the death of his ex-wife, the first thing the second wife will do after getting married is to serve tea in front of the spirit seat of the ex-wife, and then to Weng Gu Tea.

18. On the night of the bride's wedding, the bride's unmarried sister will be found to sleep on her bed that night, and fruit and red envelopes will be placed on the bed, wishing the bride a healthy life and all the best.

19. Avoid getting married in the sixth month of the lunar calendar, which means half-moon wife.

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When setting up a bed, put the bed in the right position, and avoid facing the sharp corners of the table, wardrobe or any object.

1. On the day of the engagement, no matter how hot the weather is, all those participating in the engagement are not allowed to fan their fans, otherwise it will mean breaking up.

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?After the engagement wedding banquet, neither party can say goodbye, otherwise there will be the meaning of remarriage.

These 22 marriage taboos seem to be many, and it is a bit cumbersome to follow the above taboos, but after all, getting married is a big event in your life, the preparation is perfect, the omen is better, for you and you For my wife, it's all good, isn't it!

Zhao Chaogang did a good job with these marriage taboos. Of course, even if Zhao Chaogang did it very sloppily, Zhao Qiang and his wife would help Zhao Chaogang do these things well.People in rural areas pay more attention to some taboos that need to be paid attention to when getting married.In the countryside, when holding a wedding, what you pay attention to is a good omen.

At five o'clock in the morning, Zhao Chaogang burned a stick of incense in front of his ancestor's memorial tablet, and told his ancestor about his wedding today, and asked his ancestor to bless his wedding today smoothly.The days to come will be even more prosperous.

After paying homage to his ancestors, Zhao Chaogang began to prepare to go to Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's house to marry them. This work was actually prepared yesterday, and he had rehearsed several times, so Zhao Chaogang is now very ready to prepare smoothly.

At seven o'clock in the morning, Zhao Chaogang got into the wedding car in full dress. Cars and other highly polluting means of transportation are not allowed in the martial arts secret environment, so.The wedding car prepared by Zhao Chaogang was not a car, but a very luxurious and beautiful carriage.

The materials used to make the carriage are all spiritual materials, and the wood used for the main body of the carriage is a kind of spiritual material called Xiangzhu Shenmu.

The medicinal effect of the incense pile Shenmu is very extraordinary, and it can be regarded as a top-level spiritual material in the cultivation world.It has the effect of expelling and resisting demons, and more importantly.It is the function of the camphor tree that can condense one's own foundation and improve the cultivation qualifications of the practitioners. It is precisely because of this function of the camphor tree that the camphor tree becomes the top spiritual material in the cultivation world.

As we all know, if you want to build a building, the most important thing is to lay the foundation when building the building. It must be very solid, otherwise, the building you build will be beautiful.No matter how tall.They are all shabby projects.

Once encountering danger, or time.There will be big problems in this building, and it will even collapse completely. Therefore, when building a house, no matter in ancient times or in modern times, great attention is paid to the foundation of the house.

Especially in today's modern society, when building high-rise buildings, in order to make the foundations of these high-rise buildings strong and solid, the construction party will specially dispatch some engineering vehicles to lay the foundation.

Even building a house requires such attention to the foundation. Therefore, when a practitioner is practicing, the foundation is equally important.

However, many cultivators will be confused by the powerful power when they first start to practice. Therefore, in the early stage of cultivation, he would use any means to improve his cultivation base, take pills to increase his cultivation speed, That's a regular thing.

However, improving one's cultivation by taking a large amount of pills in this way will actually cause endless troubles for cultivators.

When the realm of the cultivator is very low, such as below the Nascent Soul Stage, such dangers are not obvious, but once the cultivator reaches the Nascent Soul Stage, these dangers become more and more obvious.

A cultivator will find that no matter how much he cultivates, his cultivation base will not increase any more. Even if there is an increase, the growth rate will be like a snail, and even when he is practicing, it is extremely easy to go crazy.

At this time, the cultivator will realize that his cultivation is growing so slowly, or not at all, or is very easy to go crazy, in fact, it is because he did not pay attention to the importance of the foundation in the early stage of cultivation. As a result, the foundation of self-cultivation is very sloppy.

Just like a foundation that can only build three floors at most, if you want to build a dozen or dozens of floors on it, the result is conceivable.

Therefore, the camphor tree becomes one of the top spiritual materials in the world of comprehension. This is because it can condense the foundation of the self-cultivator. As long as there is the camphor tree, even if the foundation of the cultivator is sloppy However, he can use the camphor tree to lay a solid foundation for himself, so that he can continue to advance on the road of comprehension.

It is also for this reason that in the world of comprehension, incense sticks are used to create magic weapons to exorcise demons, temper one's own foundation, or improve the cultivation aptitude of practitioners, especially those who are above the Nascent Soul stage. The magic weapon made by refining is even more yearning.

As long as the sacred camphor tree or the magic weapon refined from the camphor tree appears, blood will flow into rivers in this cultivation world. This is the real blood flowing into rivers, not just describing the nature of blood flowing into rivers.

A cultivator's foundation is not stable, and he is more likely to be invaded by inner demons or other demons when he is cultivating, especially when he breaks through the realm, he is more likely to be taken away by alien demons.

Of course, this kind of situation is not so obvious under the Nascent Soul Stage, but after reaching the Nascent Soul Stage, the shortcomings of the unstable foundation of the cultivator will become more and more obvious, and if you are not careful, you will end up dead, so , once there appears the camphor tree that can expel inner demons and condense oneself, the madness of those cultivators in the Nascent Soul stage can be imagined.

Once the cultivators of the Nascent Soul stage start showing their power, there will be battlefields within hundreds of kilometers around them. The aftermath of the battle to kill.The nine-level and nine-level creatures within hundreds of kilometers all died. Isn't such a scene a river of blood?

The camphor tree can make practitioners not have to worry about the invasion of demons when they are practicing, and they can also continuously condense their own foundations and improve their cultivation aptitude. Therefore, as long as there are traces of the camphor tree, those high-level , especially those cultivators who use the medicinal power of elixir to forcibly improve their cultivation base, thus causing their own foundation to be unstable, will yearn for the camphor tree, and these cultivators will swear to the death for the camphor tree.

The camphor tree is indeed very precious, but to Zhao Chaogang, it is nothing. Zhao Chaogang, who has a small world, can have as many camphor trees as he wants, and at most spend some time cultivating them.

Therefore, Zhao Chaogang has enough camphor tree to make his own wedding car, and only a magical spiritual wood like camphor tree is worthy of Zhao Chaogang's identity as the owner of Zhao Chaogang's small world.

For such a big event as marriage, Zhao Chaogang, the lord of this small world, must of course come up with the best things.

Zhao Chaogang didn't care at all whether someone would discover the magical effects of the camphor tree and thus come up with the idea of ​​these camphor tree.

In the entire Yushi district, the only cultivator is Zhao Chaogang, and Zhao Chaogang has countless puppets on him, so if other people want to attack the camphor tree, they are looking for death!

It's a pity that Zhao Chaogang still took it for granted. He forgot this sentence: once there is a proper profit, capitalists will become bold.If there is a 50.00% profit, it will take risks; for a [-]% profit, it will dare to trample on all human laws; if there is a [-]% profit, it will dare to commit any crime, even risking death by hanging.

When faced with a profit of more than [-]%, many people will risk hanging to earn this [-]% profit, and the profit represented by the camphor tree is not just [-]% A profit of [-]%, this is a profit of [-]%, [-]%, or even [-] million%.

Facing such huge profits, even gods may be tempted. Therefore, it is conceivable what problems will arise in the future. )

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