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Chapter 1474 The Strong in Life (Please subscribe for more updates every day!)

A person cannot always live in hatred. Once this person really lives like this, his future will be ruined. It is obvious what the final outcome of this person will be.

People like Hou Zi really forged a lot of hatred with Xu Chang when they were on the fishing boat just now. Brothers Xu Chang and Xu Jie almost died at the hands of people like Hou Zi at that time. Xu Chang really should hate people like Monkey in his heart Therefore, it is understandable that Xu Chang wants to kill monkeys and other people.

However, in the end Xu Chang stopped, not only because Xu Chang has a tolerant heart, but also because Xu Chang is really a good person, a rational and good person.

People like Hou Zi really offended Xu Chang a lot, but at that time, people like Hou Zi had to do it under Leng Xin's despotic power. When Leng Xin wanted to kill Xu Chang and Xu Jie , Hou Zi actually dissuaded him, but because of Leng Xin's toughness, Hou Zi's persuasion did not have any effect.

As for Houzi's advice for Leng Xin to deal with Xu Chang and Xu Jie after that, it was actually because Houzi wanted to save himself. ?? □Long□Feng□Literature□Xue, ↙.≈x.ne♀t Furthermore, even if Houzi helped Leng Xin deal with the two brothers Xu Chang and Xu Jie from the beginning, people like Houzi really want to reform themselves When they are new, we should still give them a chance to reform themselves.

Didn't Buddha say something like this: put down the butcher's knife.Become a Buddha immediately!

So what is it to lay down the butcher knife and become a Buddha immediately?

What does it mean to put down the butcher knife and become a Buddha immediately?Buddhism believes that all human beings have Buddha nature.Those who do evil can become Buddhas by abandoning evil and doing good.then.Putting down the butcher's knife and becoming a Buddha immediately has often become a classic sentence to persuade evildoers to stop doing evil.

But in fact, putting down the butcher's knife and becoming a Buddha immediately is not so simple.Buddhism's "put down the butcher's knife" does not refer to the butcher's knife that actually kills people.

The "butcher's knife" here refers to malice, evil words, evil deeds and all delusions, delusion, confusion, perversion, separation, and attachment.There is also an arhat, which contains the righteousness of killing thieves. To kill thieves does not really kill thieves.In fact, the source of the phrase "putting down the butcher's knife and becoming a Buddha immediately" is a story in a Buddhist scripture.

In Buddhist scriptures, such a story is recorded.There is a black-toothed Fanzhi with great supernatural powers, who can go to the sky and enter the earth, and can predict the future.He calculated that he had only a few days to live.It was very distressing, because the supernatural powers could not help him solve the problem of life and death.

When he was in pain and wandering, another celestial being asked him to seek advice from the Buddha.The Wutong Immortal immediately went to see the Buddha with two flowers in his hands, and asked him about life and death.Buddha told him, "Let it go!"

He put down the flower in his left hand.The Buddha said again, "Let it go."

He put down the flower in his right hand, but the Buddha still told him to put it down, and he said, "I have nothing to put down."

Only then did the Buddha say to him: "What you really need to let go of is not the flowers on your hands, but your attachment to life and death."

This is the prototype of the story of putting down the butcher knife and becoming a Buddha immediately.Later, it is often used to persuade sinners to stop their sins, lay down their butcher knives and become Buddhas immediately.

So how can we lay down the butcher knife and become a Buddha immediately?

In fact, the so-called butcher knife.It is not the tangible knife in our hands, but our attachment to the afflictions of life and death, the five desires and dusty labors.In many cases, all of this is not what we can let go of.

For example, when we are distressed, if we say let go, can we immediately let go of those things that make us so distressed?When we miss our loved ones, can we immediately forget the person we miss day and night?If you are not well-trained on weekdays, it is simply impossible for you to let go of it all at once.If letting go is no longer a problem, then achievement is no longer a problem.

Therefore, in Buddhism, laying down the butcher's knife and becoming a Buddha immediately does not specifically refer to sinful people, but anything that can cause troubles and karma in life is the butcher's knife, and if you can put down the butcher's knife, you will naturally become a Buddha immediately. Become a Buddha.

The flowers in April could have bloomed gorgeously, but due to the chaos of the world, they withered away from us silently; it seems that we can't save their indulgence.

With the advent of summer and autumn, residual flowers and fallen leaves are scattered in the so-called "prosperity" that has long been pursued by the world. They are struggling in depression, hoping that someone will water them and let them live well in the world. It is kind to them not to trample on them. For the kindness of people, the grace of dripping water, they must repay each other with gushing springs.

There is always too much prosperity in the world, which hinders our uneasy state of mind; thus inducing the pace of our life to change step by step.It would be great if we bid farewell to prosperity in life and lived in peace in the world.When the flowers fall, there will always be a time to bloom; when people are wrong, there will always be a time to wake up;

Maybe people's mistakes are a kind of pursuit of liberation. If you miss it once, you may really realize a lot in life.If a person makes a mistake, he should correct it, and if he corrects it again, he should correct it again until the mistake is corrected;

Xuchang is a fisherman. Maybe he really doesn’t understand many important things, but he still understands these two sentences: put down the butcher’s knife and become a Buddha immediately, and the prodigal son turns his head back and does not change his gold. Therefore, seeing monkeys in Xuchang and these people really want to change their ways. After that, Xu Chang's hatred for the monkeys gradually disappeared.

Some people may say that Xu Chang has given up his hatred for people like monkeys in his heart. Is his heart too soft? for the sake.

Who is Xuchang?He has been an ordinary person since he was a child, born in an ordinary person.Growing up in ordinary people, work is even more working in ordinary people.Therefore, his heart is actually not so tough.It is really embarrassing for Xu Chang to want him to kill people like monkeys in cold blood.

Besides, Xu Chang's parents told Xu Chang such a sentence since he was a child, that is, people can't always live in hatred. Xu Chang always keeps this sentence in his heart.

It is also for this reason that after Xu Chang and Xu Jie became quasi-warriors, what Xu Chang and Xu Jie did to the person who drove Xu Chang's family out of their hometown was only to teach that person a lesson.They took back their own home and settled the matter. They didn't kill or maim the Yuba, all because they always kept in mind the saying that people can't always live in hatred.

And the behavior of Xu Chang and Xu Jie's big belly also won their family extremely good praise in their hometown, and those people in their hometown gave them a thumbs up.

It can be seen that sometimes letting go of hatred, in fact, what you get is more than what you did by "paying for blood"!But also heart-warming!

There are actually many such examples in the real world.Of course, a lot of these things don't get out, and, like this example.In fact, there are many, many more on TV.

It's like the TV series "Honor", seeing Shen Mei who is full of "hate".I believe everyone will subconsciously recall the saying: A person's life cannot always be lived in hatred.

Shen Mei in the TV series is the deputy general manager of Dayuan Company.When she was 14 years old.Once raped by a gangster, her father was furious.Killing the rapist violated the criminal law and was sentenced to death by the public security organ.

Out of her affection for her father, Shen Mei has since hated the police.She is a smart and capable woman, but instead of using her intelligence in the right way, she colluded with the boss of Dayuan Company, committed all kinds of evil, and committed heinous crimes.Although the TV series hasn't finished yet, the ending has already been decided, that is, "If you do many unrighteous actions, you will die yourself."

Imagine if Shen Mei didn't live in hatred, with her wisdom and ability, her life would definitely be full of sunshine.

The current law in our country is that if one person breaks the law, one person should be punished, unlike the feudal society, where if one person breaks the law, the whole family will be executed, and nine clusters will be punished.

The rapist is certainly hateful and should be brought to justice, but her father's murder is also a violation of the law.Not to mention that the sentencing of his father was correct, even if he was wrongly sentenced or killed, he could only ask the government to rehabilitate him, and not endanger society, because people cannot be resurrected after death.

Therefore, once a person lives in hatred, he will lose his mind. In the play, Shen Mei and Yuan Chengwu, the chairman of Dayuan Company, they are generous with the country, use money and beautiful women to clear the way, buy government officials as backing, and woo bank officials to support them. Illegal loans, bribed police officers as traitors, used escaped prisoners as killers, robbed banks, and disrupted the local social order. There are many obstacles to solve the case...

Once people live in hatred, they will not distinguish between enemies and friends, disown relatives, father and son will kill each other, brotherhood will be broken, what a terrible state it is.

Once a person lives in hatred, he will recklessly deceive and harm others, ignoring morality and law

Of course, the real national hatred and family hatred must be avenged, but it must be distinguished according to a certain historical period and nature.Like the Japanese imperialists who invaded China, burned, killed and plundered, can they not avenge their hatred?Didn't we drive them out of China?Later they wanted to deny this fact, can we agree?Of course not!But in terms of trade and other aspects, we are also cooperative partners.Among the people, there is no need to hate and hate. We should seek common ground while reserving minor differences, and turn hostility into friendship.

Therefore, one cannot always live in hatred.

So since people cannot always live in hatred, how should people live?How should life be happy?

How should people live?In fact, it is very simple, that is, you must follow the code of conduct in each field.

For example, if you want to be a great scientist, you should be selfless, simple, frank, despise fame and fortune, fraternity, innocence, and dedicate your whole body and mind to the cause of science. .

If you are going to be a great statesman in today's world, you should appear competent, intelligent, far-sighted, educated, open-minded.The degree of laissez-faire in private life should be tolerated by the society, and cultivating personality should not cause one's head to become dizzy and lose one's direction.

on life.You need to juggle both time and career.

In life, you have to squeeze as much time as possible into other areas.Dedicate as much time as possible to your career.Career should be the emperor of your life, and everything in life should be centered on career.

Remember, you must always be on the go, and you must save time consciously, systematically, and skillfully.To consciously save time means to firmly establish a point of view in your mind, never waste time, and spend all your time on career-related matters.

Social activities, personal trivial matters, chatting, having fun, and sleeping in that have nothing to do with career must be completely eliminated.

You can take cherishing time as your motto, and you can see this motto at all times, constantly urging and reminding yourself.

After you've wasted your time.The motto can sound the alarm in your mind, criticize your mistakes, and urge you to pay more attention in the future.

To save time in a planned way is to make a business plan and work and rest plan frequently. The business plan stipulates the goals you want to achieve in a short period of time.

For example, I asked myself to write a book on celebrities and fame at the age of 24, and to strive to study as a graduate student in the United States. At the age of 25, I had to write a paper that criticized major Western classic theories in terms of majors, and established a new and innovative paper. .And strive to be a first-class university in the United States, paving the way for myself to do something in the world's ideological circles in the future.

Goals should be specific, feasible and risky.The work and rest plan stipulates the content of your work and activities on each day of the week, the daily rest, entertainment and exercise, and working time.

After the plan is made.Double-check your own implementation.If you don't realize it well, you have to severely question yourself, and you can even punish yourself.For example, fast for a day or two, so that you can establish the concept of cherishing time.

Use your time wisely.It is to not only use the time according to the stitches, but also make full and efficient use of each period of time.

You should play less, sleep less, talk less, move less, and do less things that are not related to the goals stipulated in the plan.Make full use of walking, eating, going to the toilet, doing housework, chores, and the time before going to bed to think; make full use of the free time between get off work and holidays to carry out business activities.

You also need to use your time efficiently.First, you should be doing the most important things when you have the most energy.If you have the most energy in the morning, you can do the most important things in the morning.In the afternoon, when you have low energy, you can do all the things that do not require mental effort.You should also concentrate on doing important things without distraction and finish it in one go.

Finally, you should prioritize things.Great efforts should be made on major issues, and quick and decisive efforts should be made on secondary issues.

In life, you also need to pay attention to your physical health.

Diligence is the most important point in a person's life, but it is harmful to only care about diligence without knowing how to rest.Blindly working hard, without proper rest, entertainment and relaxation, and not paying attention to personal hygiene and physical health, will lead to physical weakness, illness, decreased energy, and even early death.

The correct way of life should be: 1: Maintain an hour of relaxation time every day or every two days. During this time, you can do physical exercise, take a walk, and listen to music.Read novels, play cards, watch cultural programs, make friends, chat, or meditate, practice qigong and yoga, etc.

2.Get enough sleep every day so you don't get dizzy. 3.Keep the air around you clean, soft and well lit. 4.No bad habits, no smoking, no drinking, no fornication, no gambling, no overeating.

5.Always maintain an optimistic spirit, and should not worry about small things or misfortunes every day. Be good at understanding yourself, thinking more, and touching more beautiful things. 6.Cultivate good hobbies and habits.Such as love to travel, love to breathe the air and exercise in the morning, love to listen to humorous stories and sketches, to be baptized "quenching" bath, etc.

7.The burden of social work and life should be reduced as much as possible, and non-research social activities should not be frequently participated in, and heavy administrative affairs should not be undertaken.

Pay attention to your health, although you have wasted some time, you have gained energy and a longer lifespan, and your ability to make contributions and become famous will be even stronger. …

In life, you also need to treat money correctly.This is especially important.

Many celebrities have three options when it comes to money:

[-]) Be indifferent to ambition, live a simple life, and despise money.

Most of the great scientists pursued this "economic" thinking, and they only asked for a small income to maintain their living expenses.

Einstein once declined an invitation to speak on television for a fee of thousands of dollars per minute.But he scrupulously re-copied the relativity paper in order to fund the anti-fascist cause.Then the original manuscript was auctioned off at a high price of 1 million meters of gold, and the proceeds were donated to the anti-fascist cause of World War II.

He also took a 1000-meter gold check as a bookmark, and later this "bookmark" was lost!When he first came to teach at Princeton University, a prestigious university in the United States, he voluntarily asked to accept a low salary.

Later, in order to maintain the salary scale and system, the university had to reject his request.

It took Marie Curie and her husband 45 months of painstaking efforts to extract 1/10 gram of radium from a large pile of asphalt slag.

Later, when American technicians wanted to ask them for technical information, the Curies, who worked day and night for economic income, resolutely gave up the millions of wealth they were about to get, and donated the technical patent of radium extraction to the world free of charge.

Einstein and the Curie couple are not tempted by the rich.The noble qualities of selfless devotion to mankind have greatly enhanced their image and fame.

The situation with the same effect is that those who have made great contributions to mankind but lived in poverty are often deeply sympathized and admired by people. Some celebrities use this "principle" intentionally or unintentionally to improve own reputation.

Beethoven was very famous when he was alive, he was greatly respected by the world, and his works could be sold at a good price, but Beethoven often complained that his income was too low, and the society’s compensation for musicians was too low. He also tried to pretend that he was poor.

His clothes were in tatters.Even the police thought he was a beggar, but he refused to change into new clothes. In the end, his friend came out and secretly took the old clothes from his room.Putting in new clothes, after his death a considerable sum of money was found in a hidden drawer of his writing desk.

but.Many people wrote his story without knowing the truth.The one-sided exaggeration of his poverty made the listeners, readers, and viewers mistakenly believe that Beethoven was fighting against poverty tenaciously.While writing a peerless masterpiece, he admired Beethoven even more.

[-]) Strive to earn a considerable amount of income to live a prosperous and comfortable life, but it is not a single-minded pursuit of wealth.This approach is not conducive to establishing an image of simplicity and selfless dedication from the public, but it can allow you to enjoy the joy of success and ensure you have a good and comfortable working environment.

[-]) If you have financial management and business skills, you may wish to accumulate wealth in your spare time, and then use most of the income for charity, for running schools, foundations and research institutes, or setting bonuses with international influence. This way to increase your reputation.

The most prominent example in this regard is the chemist Nobel, who is good at doing business. He obtained a huge fortune by running a company and operating the dynamite products he invented.He scoffed at people asking for aid to build statues and commemorate himself, but generously funded talent in dire need of money.

In his will, he ordered the descendants to use a large amount of inheritance to set up a fund to reward those who have contributed to human technological progress and peace.

Those who have no business ability, it is best not to follow this practice, otherwise you will incur debts and affect your career and life expectancy.

Mark Twain was keen on running a publishing company, but later owed 9 yuan in gold.It took him three years of hard work and frugality to pay off his debts, and during these three years, his daughter died of meningitis, and he himself was exhausted, so he did not write several outstanding works.

The above three ways of dealing with money, no matter how you deal with money, you must have basic knowledge of financial management.You must insist on making an income statement, and compare the various types of money you have recently spent and the various types of money you will spend with your income and savings. You must maintain a balance between income and expenditure, and generally do not allow expenditure to exceed income.In this way, you will not spend too much money, bear heavy debts, and cause endless harm.

In life, you need to find a wife who really cares and loves you.

You can choose the opposite sex that you think is attractive according to your own interests and hobbies.as a lifelong companion.Let's say you can choose one of four companions:

[-]) Same occupation and same ideal.Like-minded types who can promote each other.

[-]) The auxiliary type who devotes his whole body and mind to you and spares no effort to assist you.

[-]) Coexistence and complementarity with different occupations but similar interests and mutual complements.

[-]) The backer type who has a lot of money and strength and is willing to support you.

The great sage Aristotle married a wealthy wife, plus he was well paid himself.At once he became one of the richest men in all Greece.Relying on his strong economic strength, he set up many research institutions to sort out materials for him. On this basis, he was able to write hundreds of treatises involving various disciplines.

When you are choosing a mate, also pay attention to try not to find the following types of people:

[-]) Those who pursue luxury life and frequent social activities, love to show off.

Napoleon's first wife, Josephine, although she was loyal to Napoleon only after two or three years of marriage, she always spent money lavishly.After he divorced her.She still wants to live a very luxurious life.

His last wife, Marie Louis, lived abstemiously, budgeted carefully, and did not spend a lot of money, which saved Napoleon a lot of trouble.

After Tolstoy first became famous, he met and fell in love with a charming and charming girl.But later Tolstoy found her frivolous behavior and unfaithful love, so he resolutely broke off his love relationship with her regardless of her insistence on pestering him.

[-]) Neither a business partner nor a good manager.

The wife of the great musician Mozart doesn't know much about Mozart's career, and she is not good at managing her family.A good spendthrift, Mozart was often plagued by poverty. He was later overworked, and his working and living conditions were not good.He got seriously ill and died at the age of 35.

[-]) Unfaithful spouse.

After Napoleon and Josephine got married, they had a sincere affection for her. Soon after their marriage, Napoleon went to the front to command the battle.Napoleon wrote many love letters to her.But Josephine was indifferent, and instead had fun with other men.This deeply hurt Napoleon and caused great trauma to his soul.

later.Although Napoleon did not divorce Josephine out of mercy, the marriage between them was already incoherent.After being stimulated by this, Napoleon also began to indulge himself, and had sexual relations with countless women.

In life, you also need to know how to socialize.

On making friends: The friends you make should be people who are helpful to your career, and people who are good for you to maintain a good mental state and struggle environment, so you should mainly associate with the following three types of people.

People who are helpful to you in terms of knowledge and experience, such as predecessors, teachers, peers, experts in similar fields, and authorities.Those who are involved in politics can seek advice from political veterans.People who study physics can seek advice from well-known physicists, and discuss technical issues with outstanding colleagues and people who study mathematics.

People who are helpful to you in terms of economy, popularity, and power.

If you find a rich wife to support your expenses, you can concentrate on your career and don't have to worry about money. For example, European musicians in the 89s and [-]th century used to find an aristocrat as a sponsor.

You can also find someone who is familiar with authority figures in the field and ask him to introduce you to these experts so that you can come out and show your talents to the world.

You can also find a powerful person who appreciates you and ask him to help you spread your ideas, theories, inventions or works, or provide favorable conditions for your career. Aristotle, the great sage of ancient Greece, was once The teacher of Alexander the Great who lived through the ages.

Alexander gave him huge sums of money as scientific research funding, and called on people all over the country to contribute specimens of various animals and plants needed by Aristotle. Aristotle was able to establish the world's first largest zoo, and wrote for him Works on flora and fauna laid the foundation.

Someone who gives you motivation, support, and satisfaction mentally.You should find a person with insight, he or she can evaluate your talents and achievements pertinently, affirm your strengths and successes, point out your shortcomings and deficiencies, and encourage your courage and confidence to make progress.

This person can be your teacher or your peers.It could be your family, it could be your couple.

also.Every celebrity has a requirement to communicate with the opposite sex, especially those who are engaged in politics, art, politics, and social activities.You should look for attractive, knowledgeable members of the opposite sex.Gaining satisfaction and joy from interacting with them, the great French writer Hugo is diligent in writing, very tense in work and life, and sometimes does not care enough for his wife Adele.

Hugo is enraged when Adele develops an open romance with a critic.Later, Hugo met the young and beautiful actress Derouet, and got spiritual sustenance from her romantic temperament and spirit of sacrifice.

It is a blessing to have a good friend. It is a good friend who is of great help to your career, that is, a good friend.It is a great blessing. In terms of making friends, Karl Marx is the luckiest figure in the history of celebrities. He has the best girlfriend and the best boyfriend.

His wife Jenny, who is beautiful, virtuous, intelligent and capable, has become his capable secretary.His loyal, selfless and straightforward friend Engels even abandoned his career to support the impoverished Marx financially.

Like Marx, he has profound insights.In the discussion with him, Marx got a lot of inspiration.They are the greatest pair of same-sex friends in human history.

If Marx did not have these two great friends, I am afraid that he could only make half of the contribution that people see, and Marx's name would lose a lot of glory.

Everyone who aspires to fame.When trying to be as lucky as Marx, hand in a great opposite sex and a great same sex.

A person will meet many new friends in his life, how to treat old friends in this situation?Some old friends will gradually and naturally lose contact due to your relocation, personal work and life changes.This is very natural.

You should strive not to lose the connection with your old friends who are not far away, and the old friends who are far away.Greetings can be given when major festivals come, and when old friends who have lost contact are reunited remotely.Be warm and generous, don't put on airs, and treat others equally.

No matter what kind of friend you treat, as long as his quality is not bad and you are willing to associate with him, you should be warm, generous, generous and helpful.

On social activities: In life alone, it is best not to take part in social activities at all, but to participate in some positive social activities.This makes use of your life, and you also make a useful contribution to society.

Social activities mainly include professional and social aspects.

In terms of professionalism, you can actively recommend and support potential young people, vigorously promote and support promising professional projects and institutions, actively participate in professional exchange activities, open up new topics, and guide people to pay attention to some new fields.

Socially, you can express your views on justice and progress on some social and political issues.

If you actively oppose some wars of aggression in the world, for example, Sakharov strongly condemned the Soviet Union’s war of aggression against Afghanistan in 1978; The justice of the domestic anti-war movement was affirmed.

You can also take an active part in social activities that oppose the expansion of arms and demand the protection of world peace.Sakharov called on the Soviet Union to stop nuclear testing; Einstein spent his life protesting against Nazism, calling against nuclear weapons and supporting Zionism.

You can also contribute to ecology, population, health and sanitation, relief of the hungry, medical treatment, etc.

Marie Curie, the discoverer of radium, used radium radiation to treat wounded and sick soldiers during World War I.

Franklin founded the first professional police force in the United States, the first volunteer firefighting force, the first fire insurance company, the predecessor of the University of Pennsylvania, and the Pennsylvania Hospital.

The billionaire Carnegie created several foundations to pay for workers and reward heroes who saved lives.

Social activities can only be regarded as a sideline job, and you must not devote most of your time to them, because once you invest a lot of energy in these activities, correspondingly, your energy in other areas will be greatly reduced.This can get your life stuck inside, eventually.Your life will suck and you will be a failure in life.

so.You can participate in social activities and make friends, but you need to pay attention to a degree, otherwise, what awaits you will only be failure!

In life, you also need to handle family relationships well.

1.For wife, brother, sister, parents and other family members.

Treat them with respect and courtesy, love them sincerely, and strive to live a harmonious, warm and loving family life with them.Fulfill your obligations to your wives, brothers, sisters, parents, and other peers and elders with the greatest ability.

If they accuse you inappropriately.You can find the right time to explain to them patiently and win their understanding.If they cannot accept your point of view for the time being, you can try to get along with them friendly and seek common ground while reserving differences.Finally, as a last resort, I broke off relations with them.

At one point, you need to keep in mind in your life that your success is inseparable from the support of your family. Therefore, before and after you become famous.You should try your best to win the support and sympathy of your family and relatives for your career, let them create conditions for your success, and strive for them to help you succeed in terms of housework, economy and opportunities.

Especially after you become famous, you have to warn your family not to be arrogant.Look down on others, put on airs, and behave indulgently.Violation of law and discipline.Ask them to pay more attention to their behavior and establish a good image in front of the public.Premier Zhou, the greatest prime minister in Chinese history, was very strict with his only nephew.He is required to take the lead in complying with national regulations and work in difficult places with peace of mind.His nephew obeys the state's arrangements and does not engage in specialization, which greatly improves Premier Zhou's tall image.

2.educating children

A successful person is mostly inseparable from family education that has been obtained in the Fa.To educate promising children, education should be carried out in terms of spirit, ability and body.

The earliest family education was prenatal education.

When the wife is pregnant, the husband and wife should live in harmony, the husband should care for his wife, let her get enough rest, let her live a happy life, avoid emotions such as anger, sorrow, fear, and hatred that are not conducive to the body, and let her eat nutritious food ; Finally, let the wife listen to some beautiful and elegant music.Doing so is beneficial to the physical and mental health and intellectual development of the fetus.

When a child is born, he must be educated in early childhood.And when children grow up, you have to adopt more advanced and complex educational methods, such as juvenile education and youth education.

For some areas, such as art, music, and physical education, early childhood and youth education is essential to a child's success.If you want your child to succeed in art and music, you must teach him to paint, sculpt, or play a musical instrument from an early age.

Among the three aspects of spiritual education, talent education and physical education, spiritual education is the most important.

The following qualities should be cultivated in children: honesty, self-control, ability to live and work independently, humility, courage, love of labor, diligence, frugality, planning, thirst for knowledge, treating people with courtesy regardless of their status, making full use of them. Time, punctuality, civility, self-respect, hygiene, love and perseverance to the cause, and discipline.

In spiritual education, the most important thing is to instill in children a strong desire to pursue success.

We should teach children to constantly struggle and always be enterprising, to compare and compete with outstanding figures from time to time, and to regard each achievement as a new achievement; to use their own personal experience as an example to illustrate the importance of self-struggle and success.It must be moved with emotion, understood with reason, repeated emphasis, and continuous strengthening.

If you can cultivate your child's enterprising spirit, even if you don't teach him any skills and knowledge, your child will be driven by this enterprising spirit to take the initiative to learn and master the corresponding skills, and be able to excel in a certain field. To succeed.

A quality associated with enterprise is self-control and planning.You should teach your children to systematically arrange their various tasks, homework and things, and to make full use of time.Never play when it's time to work, and stop working decisively when it's time to play.

For people in eastern countries, it is very important to cultivate children's ability to take care of themselves and stand on their own.

Let your children handle their own affairs, socialize, go grocery shopping, cook, and do laundry.

Talent education mainly has the following main contents: stimulate children's thirst for knowledge, let them develop the habit of loving learning and reading; instill knowledge in children, improve their intelligence and operational ability; discover and cultivate children's ability in a certain field special interest.

The main methods of cultivating curiosity and intelligence include: telling stories to children, and patiently answering questions raised by children. If you really can’t answer, you can say: "Please write down this question, and I will tell you as soon as I know it later."

Buy comic strips and children's books for your children.In the family, there are often competitions of knowledge, science, art and intelligence.Take children to travel, go for a walk in the wild, make friends, visit, and instill natural science and social science knowledge in children in time.Teach children to read and write, and read some popular books.You should also encourage your children to do science experiments and make their own instruments.

You should observe your child more to understand his hobbies and strengths.Once you find that they have a strong interest in a certain field and have shown certain abilities, you should immediately train them carefully.

You can encourage him to develop in this area, buy him books or utensils in this area, provide good conditions for him, and even let him do less housework and develop more in this area.

Physically, you should pay attention to your child's nutritional diet and hygiene habits.Eat nutritious food for children, and oppose partial and picky eaters; teach children to combine work and rest, work and rest on time, and exercise regularly.Let the children dress clean and tidy, arrange life and utensils in an orderly manner, and let the children pay attention to hygiene in life.

In education, methods should be emphasized.Different educational methods should be adopted according to the psychological characteristics of children of different ages.For example, the education of young children should be carried out in combination with the specific situations of children's lives, and should be carried out in a timely manner, and taught according to the characteristics of the children.It can be used in games and making friends.During the outing, use storytelling to let the children retell, take out an item and name the item for the child to learn, and use specific and vivid methods such as charts and examples to educate the child.

Education should be done step by step, from easy to difficult, from simple to complex.The requirements for children in all aspects must be strict, but children must also understand the benefits of strict requirements.To guide the children correctly, do more reasoning work.Parents must establish their own prestige, and at the same time show their love and care for their children everywhere. Parents must lead by example in education.

Appropriate rewards should be given to the children's great progress, but the rewards should be mainly spiritual and supplemented by material, and they should not foster the children's pride, but put forward new requirements for them.

Parents should educate their children not to spoil them, worry too much about them, and do everything for them by themselves, so that the children lose their ability to take care of themselves; do not lose their temper, and do more reasoning work; do not give orders to children and impose their own will; do not despair of life, so that children are physically and mentally destroyed; do not use methods of scaring, deceiving and damaging children's self-esteem to educate children.

So, in fact, it is a very simple thing to know how to live. Of course, you don’t have to follow all the six points mentioned above. As long as you can handle your career, friends, and family well The relationship between the three is that a person who knows how to live is a strong person in life!

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